By Chris J Roberts
There are men who simply enjoy the art of dating. Their lives are full and they only want to have fun in the dating circle. What if you were the woman he constantly turned to for fun? Do you think he would reconsider to make a commitment? Possibly; but keep in mind that the road to commitment with an emotionally unavailable man is long and hard.
If you are willing to put in the time and effort to get a commitment, you could be the woman that makes him see relationships in a different light. Keep in mind that you need to show him. Nothing you say will convince him. It must be something he sees with his eyes and feels in his heart.
Men commit when they feel the woman in their life enhances their life without demands and complications. No amount of time or conversation will change a man’s mind about being in a relationship. Your job is to let him see that you are the woman that makes his life fun, exciting and stimulating.
A non-committal man will avoid a nagger like the plague. If you constantly remind him you are the best thing that has ever happened to him, he will cease to hear your words. He doesn’t want to be convinced that you are the woman for him; he needs to feel it. Nagging him will most certainly cause distance between the both of you and eventually he will avoid you and your frustrating conversations.
You will have to change your thought process to be with a non-committal man. You need to let him have his space and not question him about it. You will have to become understanding of his need to have his friends and toys. When he decides to spend his time with you, make the best of it. Don’t remind him of how long it’s been since you’ve seen him or heard from him. Simply enjoy the time he has made for you.
Use your time together to establish a relationship that gives him something no one else gives him. Allow him opportunities to talk to you with a level of comfort he doesn’t experience with anyone else. Encourage his thoughts and opinions with criticism or judgment. Allow him to relate to you on a level above and beyond physical attraction.
If he knows that he will have fun, exciting and intellectual experiences when he is with you, he will seek out your time for those experiences. Patience is the key with Mr. Emotionally Unavailable Men. Be patient, understanding and unpredictable. Keep him guessing what’s next with you and give him a new experience every time he’s with you. Mr. Unavailable Men is looking for new ways to have fun. Give him what he’s looking for and he won’t look any further.