5 LIES Married Men Tell To Desperate Women

by Black Love And Marriage.com

in Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs

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By Ruth Purple

If you are involved with a married man and believe it’s going somewhere, well think again. Married men are wily, wicked creatures. They will tell you everything and anything under the sun to make you believe that you have a future with them. When in fact, only 3% of philandering married men will leave their wives for their mistresses… this means that you have a 3% chance of“happy ending,” that’s a very slim chance.

Now, he may like you a lot or even love you, but not enough to leave his wife and kids. However, if ever you do end up together, there is an equally slimmer chance that he will be faithful with you, as the saying goes, “if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.”

In spite of all these seemed impossible chances of having a future with married men, why are there still so many gullible women who still believe them? I guess one of the possible reasons is that they are unaware of the lies married men tell.

Men can tell a whole lot of lies just to keep you hanging around, if you hear one or more of these lies, it’s time to turn away.

* “I don’t love my wife anymore.” This is one of the most common lies married men tell simply because there is no concrete way of proving this to you. You just have to take Pinocchio’s word for it. If he throws you this line, tell him to man- up, settle his rut before whoring around.

* “We’re only in the marriage for the children.” This is the perfect excuse married men tell, because somehow it triggers the sympathy factor- a noble act of giving-up his own happiness for the children’s sake. This is all trash, if he is really a good father as he is trying to imply, then he should be at home, trying to be a good role model to his children and making things right with his children’s mother rather than trying to get to bed with you.

* “We’re not having sex anymore.” Or “We’re not sleeping together for a long time.” Then there must be a good reason, and if things are that bad at home, then why is he still there? If he is trying to work on his lousy marriage, then why is he being smooth with you? It just does not add up. Do not fall it.

* “We really want a divorce, but we can’t afford it.” Married men who use this line must be from, “Loserville.” He cannot afford a divorce, but he can afford to have an affair with you. You must be as stupid as he is to fall for this line.

* “I’m leaving her soon.” Or “I’m leaving her as soon as…” Usually, married men use this line when they sense that you are slowly pulling away. Remember, if he wanted to leave his wife, he could have done it way back when he realized their marriage is not working.

Married men are bored and they need distractions; they want someone who can ease up their tensions. They are not looking for relationships; they are not looking for “you and me forever,” they just want someone to play around with, at the end of the day; they go home to the people that matters to their life, and that is not you.

Ruth Purple is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships.  You can check more of her work at http://www.relazine.com

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Tabitha January , 2016 at

I have been dating a married and i am not proud about it. In fact, i never knew that the person in question was married with children, but as the relationship got stronger and stronger and i foolishly fell in love with him, the truth unfold.

As usual, same odd story, the wife is bickering,cheating, making his life hell to call for a divorce. They apparently no longer sleep together, because he is not attracted to her anymore. He has been trapped and just stays for the sake of the children. Really??? LIAR, RUN FAST!

I have never believed a single word this man says against his wife. The passion that comes out of the anger he displays towards her rather prove me that he is just being jealous over something i am unaware of and that he loves her. 94% of our conversation is about their marital fights, their children and the fights yet again.

I have listen patiently and wisely and i am 99% convinced that the man does not love me at all, rather he loves his wife and will never divorce her. Why would you divorce the mother of your kids with whom you keep investing on assets and the future of your kids over someone you have nothing to gain from?

When the man makes loves to me, he does not give himself all to me, he does not allow himself to be fully vulnerable in my presence. There is a distance and if every mistress is true to themselves, they might have felt it too. He is distant and the sex is not that pleasant as a result. I do not think he will rush to have a 5 min session and move on thereafter with his wife. No, he will take his time to satisfy her and make sure they both enjoy it. I am being fucked while the wife is being made love to.

Never has the man bought me any present, not a single rose or valentine's card, nothing, just sex and tarnishing his wife image at every opportunity. In fact, he runs away at every opportunity to demonstrate love and affection by any means.

I know he is taking me for granted, but i don't know why i have allowed it to last that long. I probably lust toward him and i confused it with love. But because of the attention i have given to him, the guy honestly think that i love him more than my life.

No, i have become attached to him, but i do not want him and i do not love him. He is welcome to his wife whom marriage i certainly do not want to wreck. The husband loves her even if he pretends otherwise. So God should protect their marriage from any harm.

In conclusion, if you are dating a married man, know that he is a thief, a liar and deceiver. Never believe any words he says against his family, his wife. Once he is not with you, he is busy making love and projects with her. He is busy impregnated and spoiling her. Sometimes it is true they have arguments, and that when he is the most outspoken about how a hell his life is with her and run out to you for companionship. He is abusing your vulnerability, he is deceiving you. Do not lose your precious time with a player like him and invest in yourself. A deserving man will open the door of your heart and claim and love you with no shame. Do not settle for less and keep married men to a distance because like HIV, they are bad news. Nothing good come out of such ill gotten relationships, it is just energy draining. Where is your investments when he has everything to claim as his own, object of his happiness.


Najeeb August , 2014 at

Seeping with other women is considered punishable in Islam and so if u are not ok with the relation even in trying all u can to…. Then try to leave her with all recommended expenses or marry another and have a legal relationship. Further it depends on the women how comfortable is she to make it better…. Else if both are not in acceptance for…. Then better give time and stay with each other and any way u were in love some day so figure out each other’s flaws and consult a good person….


Alpha Male June , 2013 at

The real question is why are men tired of women and there obvious selfish behavior. Men nowadays have come to the conclusion that many women have bitten off into the lie, and the lie being that the rules of engagement in marriage have changed. Women have become more consumed with there careers and gaining material wealth in place of providing the home feeling in the house. Eve believed the lie of serpent in the Garden of Eden, such as women continue to believe the lie that the world projects. Men generally stay in bad marriages because why, who gets the charge of abandonment in the marriage arena. Men or Women, a lot of women will stay in bad marriage for all the wrong reasons, which forces some men to stick around. God created Adam first and how long was he upon the earth alone. Exactly, we do not know. God say that it was not good for man to be alone and created Eve. My point women have never been alone since the foundation of the earth, but man has. So who really needs who. Selah


nimaduwad March , 2012 at

Ladies would you stay with him if he would split his time equitably
with you and his wife?


Wifey March , 2012 at

Sometimes they don't even know why they are out with you. They just want some relaxation. Start talking about leaving their kids and wife…are you crazy biotch! Not happening.


jolene March , 2012 at

Yup…not leaving wife…just easing tensions…like a massage or concubine.


Tolina March , 2012 at

I will admit i've played the victim role to a few of these lies. I was in an emotional fog because i desperately wanted companionship…Oh..and i ended up being a part of the 97%. Great read.


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