By Ayize Ma’at
Let…Me…Cater….To….You. : ) One of the assignments we give couples who are having difficulty expressing where they are emotionally is to pick a song and allow the music to deliver over melody what’s sitting inside their heart. Words like I love you, I’m sorry, or I appreciate you become easier to express and receive when you remove the interpretation of your body language, your tone and facial expressions from the equation.
Whenever we’re conducting a class, delivering a speech, facilitating a workshop, or working one on one with couples and we sense trepidation around letting your guard down and speaking from a space of true presence and intention in your relationship we gently nudge couples to embrace the uncomfortability of stepping towards true intimacy. One way in which we do that is to encourage them to revisit the lyrics in Beyonce’s song Cater To You. Through that experience we assist them in understanding that it’s through the process of asking and receiving that you open the gates to true intimacy in your relationship. Check out these two groups below…..listen to they lyrics ….and at some point this week say to your spouse. Let Me Cater To You.
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