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By Aiyana Ma’at This past weekend I had the awesome opportunity to join with women in the Washington, DC metro area and celebrated our Divine Feminine—Mind, Body, & Spirit. It was awesome! I spoke about how we as women can truly love and accept ourselves for all of who we are. I was blessed by [...]

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By Team BLAM We’ve said on many occasions that relationships require hard work. Sometimes, (i.e., a lot of times!) we seem to forget that as human beings and want everything to go our way. We don’t understand why we have to endure so much friction. Our question to you is: Why not? Anything worth having [...]

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VIDEO:  Hi, here’s my situation. I met my friend who’s like a mother to me son recently. Ok I really didnt see it as a set up because I was trying to stay out of the” I THINK EVERY MAN I MEET IS MY HUSBAND” area. So we were introduced and it went well. I was nervous [...]

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Post image for One Of The Biggest Reasons Women Leave Men–It’s Not What You Think

By Virgil J. Sandberg There are a lot of reasons as to why women leave men. While you may have argued and had fights over different things, you really need to get to the root cause of the problems. There have been many studies and polls about this issue, and a common response has been [...]

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By Beverly Engel When I was 35 years old, I divorced my mother. I felt that under the circumstances, it was the only thing I could do. I had long felt that she had damaged me with emotional abuse while I was growing up, and during my adulthood she continued to treat me in ways [...]

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By Tatiana Kaletsch Slipping away hand-in-hand with your S.O. to a dark, deserted alley is a risky rendezvous, but that’s part of what makes it so hot, right? Where are the sexiest locales for getting it on … and is anything off-limits? Our experts weigh in on everything you wanted to know about having sex in places [...]

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From Hiding To Healing Your Shame

May 15, 2013
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By Darlene Lancer, MFT Shame is so painful to the psyche that most people will do anything to avoid it, even though it’s a natural emotion that everyone has. It’s a physiologic response of the autonomic nervous system. You might blush, have a rapid heartbeat, break into a sweat, freeze, hang your head, slump your [...]

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I’ve Chosen To Settle And Have Sex With My Ex

May 14, 2013
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By Team BLAM   Hey guys. I recently found your videos on youtube and I must say that I love watching. It is very informing and inspiring to watch the two of you. Now I am having some issues and need your advice please. So I am 20 years old and single (by choice of [...]

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19 Powerful Tips You Need To Know In Order To Be An Effective Communicator

May 14, 2013
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By Team BLAM Communication is an art. It is an art that requires you to use your intuition at times and go against what you feel at others. It requires you to evaluate what you’re hearing and then take responsibility for what you’re putting out. Contrary to popular belief, being a good communicator has nothing [...]

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How To Manage Your Emotions When You Feel Yourself “Going There”

May 13, 2013
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By Barton Goldsmith, Ph.D When someone gets their knickers in a twist and blows up, how do you handle it? If your current way of dealing with emotional fireworks isn’t working, here are ten tips to help you the next time one happens. Start by staying calm. Keep yourself from getting sucked into the emotional vortex. [...]

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