Week Of Give Aways #4: Enter For Your Relationship Care Package: 7 Free Marriage Movies & Books!

We’re celebrating our 100th Video with an entire week of give aways and today marks Give Away # 4! We’re giving away 7 Free Marriage Movies & Books! Knowledge is Power. Doing something with that knowledge is even better! Go ahead and Enter! Leave a comment below with one of the most important things you feel black people need to work on to improve our relationships. Don’t forget to leave your email address in the email field so we can enter you and contact you if you’re the winner. If you want to be anonymous then make up a name when leaving a comment—just be sure that your email address is correct. The winner will be selected randomly. It won’t cost you a thing. This is our way of saying thank you for helping www.Blackloveandmarriage.com become it all it has (and all it is yet to be!) The winner will be announced next Thursday, Oct. 14th. Happy Thursday! See you back tomorrow for Give Away #5!

You Saved Me

With African American marriage numbers at an all time low and African American divorce numbers at an all time high the hopes of positive, lasting, relationships look bleak until now. Executive Producers Lamar and Ronnie Tyler bring real married couples to the screen to chronicle the greatest love stories ever told. These real couples explain how their marriages had a direct impact on their lives. Featuring candid and transparent looks inside of the hardships, trials, and ultimate success stories of these amazing couples. YOU SAVED ME offers an unprecedented look inside of real relationships and what is required to sustain them.

Not Easily Broken

A couple’s strength and faith are tested after the wife is injured in a car crash and husband becomes attracted to another woman.

Fireproof

A heroic fireman locked in a failing marriage accepts his father’s challenge to take part in a 40-day experiment designed to teach both husband and wife the true meaning of commitment in this faith-based marriage drama starring Kirk Cameron and Erin Bethea. When he’s battling blazes, Capt. Caleb Holt (Cameron) adheres to the old firefighter’s adage about never leaving your partner behind; back at home, it’s an altogether different story. Caleb and his wife Catherine (Bethea) have been married for seven years, but lately arguments over career, housework, finances, and outside interests have driven the once-happy couple hopelessly apart. Just as Caleb and Catherine prepare to officially dissolve their marriage, Caleb’s father John (Harris Malcolm) presents his son with a most unusual challenge: commit to a 40-day experiment called “The Love Dare,” and take one last shot at saving his marriage. While at first Caleb agrees to take a chance on “The Love Dare,” the discovery that it’s closely tied in with his parent’s newfound faith causes him to momentarily reconsider. Still, Caleb carries on with the experiment despite being constantly rejected by his skeptical, embittered wife. When Caleb asks his father how he can be expected to love someone who refuses to give him a fair chance, John tells his son that this is precisely the same love that God shows for humankind. Now, with a little help from above, the man who makes headlines for saving lives will fight to be a hero to the one person who matters most — his wife.

Happily Ever After: A Positive Image Of Black Marriage

From the creators of the award winning website Black and Married With Kids.com comes a ground breaking documentary set to challenge negative stereotypes surrounding marriage and parenting in the black community. Couples and experts discuss topics such as the image and portrayal of black marriages and families, the effect the Obamas will have on marriage in the black community and the importance of parenting.

The Conversation:

How Black Men & Women Can Build Loving, Trusting Relationships

African Americans have always turned to family in times of need. But now, this proud and strong legacy is in peril. Black men and women have stopped communicating effectively, threatening the relationships and marriages necessary to sustain the Black family. In this moving and practical book, Hill Harper — bestselling author, NAACP Image Award winner, and CSI: NY star — undertakes a journey both universal and deeply personal in search of answers to this dilemma.

Turn Up The Heat: A Couple’s Guide To Sexual Intimacy

One of God’s greatest gifts is the pleasure and privilege of sex within marriage. Dr. Kevin Leman knows even married people have lots of questions about sex, but sometimes they feel too embarrassed to ask or don’t know where to turn for the best answers. For all those questions readers couldn’t imagine asking their pastor or even their close friends, Dr. Leman is ready with open ears and expert advice. Often asked about sex and intimacy as he speaks and travels, he bets that some of those questions are the ones readers want answered too. With his trademark humor and wit, he offers frank answers to the burning questions all of us have about sex. Covering such topics as God’s original intentions for sex, body image, attraction, expectations, sex drive, sex after children arrive, and much, much more, Turn Up the Heat is comprehensive in scope and just what the doctor ordered. Readers will not only get the answers they crave but plenty of the hearty chuckles they expect from Leman. Perfect for newlyweds or couples who have been married for years.

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret To Love That Lasts

Are you and your spouse speaking the same language? While love is a many splendored thing, it is sometimes a very confusing thing, too. And as people come in all varieties, shapes, and sizes, so do their choices of personal expressions of love. But more often than not, the giver and the receiver express love in two different ways. This can lead to misunderstanding, quarrels, and even divorce. Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love and then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. Learn to speak and understand your mate’s love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return.Skillful communication is within your grasp!

Week Of Give Aways # 3: Enter For A Free Home Chrome Secret Dancer Pole, How-To DVD & Music CD Set, & A $50 Victoria’s Secret Gift Card!!!

We’re celebrating our 100th Video with an entire week of give aways and today marks Give Away # 3! This one is truly for the Grown & Sexy! We are giving away a fabulous Chrome Secret Dancer Pole with the Secret Dancer How-To DVD & Music CD set AND a $50 Victoria’s Secret Gift Card so you can get the perfect outfit for your special dance!

You can now bring the pleasure, visual appeal and sexual seduction of pole dancing right into the comfort (and privacy) of your home. With the Chrome Secret Dancer Pole, you can now bring that element of desire using a sturdy, durable product can help you entertain your partner and keep fit, thanks to the aerobic benefits. In case ya’ll didn’t know—pole dancing is a serious workout! Forreal! The dance pole can easily attach to your ceiling whether or not you decide to use the in-place screws. This means that you can easily transport the pole anywhere that you wish.

The Chrome Secret Dancer Pole

The Secret Dancer DVD and Music CD Set features instructions on how to integrate the Secret Dancer Pole into foreplay, as well as tips and an on-screen sex encyclopedia. With your seductive new dance moves you will not only experience a great workout, but a newfound sexual confidence sure to get your partner hot! 😉 And, yes guys, you can enter too and surprise your sweetie with something new for the bedroom!

Last but not least we  want you to go to Victoria’s Secret and get something special or guys go and get that special something you want to see your lady in.

Go ahead and Enter! Leave a comment below with a relationship quote. It can be well known or an original from you. Don’t forget to leave your email address in the email field so we can enter you and contact you if you’re the winner. If you want to be anonymous then make up a name when leaving a comment—just be sure that your email address is correct. The winner will be selected randomly. It won’t cost you a thing. This is our way of saying thank you for helping www.Blackloveandmarriage.com become it all it has (and all it is yet to be!) The winner will be announced next Wednesday, Oct. 13th. Happy Wednesday! See you back tomorrow for Give Away #4!

Week Of Give Aways # 1: Enter For Free Dinner For 2 And A Movie!

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We’re celebrating our 100th Video with an entire week of give aways and today marks Give Away # 1! We are giving away a perfect date night: Dinner for two– A $75 gift certificate for dinner at thousand’s of eligible restaurants across the country from Restaurant.com and 2 movie tickets to see the movie of your choice at hundreds of eligible theaters across the country from Fandango.com.

Go ahead and Enter! Leave a comment below & don’t forget to leave your email address in the email field so we can enter you and contact you if you’re the winner. The winner will be selected randomly. It won’t cost you a thing. This is our way of saying thank you for helping www.Blackloveandmarriage.com become it all it has (and all it is yet to be!) The winner will be announced next Monday, Oct. 11th. 🙂 Happy Monday! See you back tomorrow for Give Away #2!

We’re Celebrating Our 100th Video With An Entire Week Of Give Aways!

Time flies when you’re having fun…it really does. I can remember when my husband and I had our first conversation about starting a company that would uplift and empower folks to press through the hard parts of our lives and relationships and reach for the best of who we were made to be. What started as an idea has manifested into a family business that aims to help & inspire by providing classes, consulting, personal coaching, an ever expanding advice column and another way for my husband and I to continue to discover and learn each other as our love continues to grow.

But, guess what? If we didn’t have you…..you that visits the site, you that takes the risk to ask a question that ends up helping so many, you that takes the time to say “Hey, keep doing what you’re doing.”….if we didn’t have you none of this would be possible. So, we want to say THANK YOU B Intentional Family with an entire week of give aways!!! Yay!!! This is going to be great!

So, make sure you stop by each and every day next week to find out how you can become the winner of one or some of these fabulous give aways. We really do appreciate each and every one of you! And, we’re gonna prove it.

Do Something Different.Do Something New. Do Something For Your Relationship. Do Something For You!

Basic Training For Couples Registration is happening now. Will you be there? Let’s predict the conversation….

Partner 1: You know that Basic Training class…the couples class I was telling you about? It starts September 28th.

Partner 2: Oh, yeah? What’s the point of it though? Isn’t it for people who have alot of problems?

Partner 1: I think it really doesn’t matter. You can be having no problems or be on the verge of divorce.

Partner 2: We’re fine. I mean, what they gon’ tell me that I don’t already know? Most people know what they need to do they just don’t do it, ya know?

Partner 1: Yeah, I know….that’s exactly why I think we should go.

This is just one of how many conversations will go between couples when talking about taking a relationship class. There is usually one person who is curious or feels they need it and there is usually one person who thinks it’s just not that serious. If you or your sweetie is unsure about whether this class is for you drop us a line or give us a call at 1-888-307-7970. We won’t hesitate to answer any and all of your questions. Do something different. Do something new. Do something for your relationship. Do something for you! This is the perfect opportunity for you to Stop Playing & Start Pushing.

Click here for frequently asked questions and here for registration information.

How To Avoid A Jerk/Jerkette Registration Has Begun!

Jerks, losers, men and women who ain’t about nothing…call them whatever you want—we will show you how to avoid them and find “the one” that’s right for you. This class will help you break destructive dating patterns that have kept you from finding the love you deserve! Are you ready to start the journey? Mark your calendar! This class begins Sept. 30th!

Click here for details and registration information

BASIC TRAINING FOR COUPLES REGISTRATION HAS BEGUN!

This class is not what you think and more than you expect. No matter what your thoughts are about a “relationship class” you have never experienced anything like Basic Training For Couples. It is one of the most effective and respected relationship curriculums in this country.  You’ve also never experienced the kind of clarity, honesty, and laughter that Ayize and Aiyana bring to each of their classes and their couples—Never.

I wish I could explain to you what these classes can do for your relationship and for your own personal development. I wish you could understand that it’s not only the classes but it’s the process in and of itself. The process of coming together with other couples, sharing, being real, stretching, and growing with your partner and with each other is what will change you and your relationship forever. Click here for frequently asked questions about our class. Click here to register.

Husband & Wife (Ayize & Aiyana) Bloopers Part 1

VIDEO: Have a deep belly laugh with these B Intentional Bloopers. We’re switching it up today by taking you behind the scenes of our “Ask The Ma’at’s” video shows. A couple of cuss words slip, a few  eyes are rolled, and a few “are you serious?” stares are given. We may not be perfect but we’re perfect for each other! Underneath it all is love. Deeply rooted love for each other….and a passion to share it with YOU.  🙂 Leave a comment or submit a video response with what you think!

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I Need My Wife To Be My Freak…Not A Saint In The Sheets!

VIDEO: Ayize is a bit perturbed in this clip because it’s almost 3am and Aiyana keeps messing up on the recording. She thinks it’s funny but I am not amused. She messes up one more time (what you don’t see is the 10 mess ups before that! :-\ ) before we start to flow and get to the issue at hand. Here, we answer a guy who writes in about how frustrated he is with his “closed minded” wife in the bedroom. He wants the freak to come out at night…and she’s not feeling it.

Men and women are wired differently when it comes to sex and there’s no getting around that. But, what does one partner do when the other partner is rigid and reserved in the bedroom and they are the exact opposite? Is it their job to loosen their spouse up so they can feel free to explore sexually or should they just simply respect where their spouse is and accept that this is the way it will be…til death do them part?

If a couple is not in sync sexually do you think they are bound to have major problems that will eventually threaten their bond? Have you experienced a similar issue in your relationship? How did you handle it? Or maybe you’re dealing with a similar scenario right now…weigh in and leave a comment or submit a video response letting us know what you think.