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Queen I'll stand behind you in support and watch you get your shine. When you shine..I shine..and I love our glow.

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Too often couples are ready to tap out and give up on their love far too quickly instead of working on their bond. There are lots of reasons to not give up.

Here are 2:
#1 Research shows that if you can simply wait it out while working on it , your marriage will take a turn for the better. There was a study done out of Chicago years ago that followed several hundred couples.

It tested their marital happiness and their satisfaction with life. At least half of the couples were stressed out and dissatisfied with their marriage and their life.

Five years later they tested the same couples again and discovered something quite amazing. For the couples who ended up divorcing, they were still just as unhappy with their life and their relationships. For the couples who stayed together, they reported being happy with their marriage and satisfied with their life.

Sometimes it pays to have a little patience when it comes to marital difficulty.

#2 If you don't resolve the difficulties in your current marriage, they will simply haunt you in your second marriage.

This is the most depressing news of all to couples who divorce, especially if they have children together.

Because what they realize, often very quickly, is that the same negative patterns that destroyed their first marriage are creeping into their second.

Why?

Because divorce doesn't solve anything.

It only makes everything more complicated and hard. This is why divorce rates are so much higher for second marriages.

The real tragedy is folks eventually have to learn to get along, co-parent and repair the damage, etc.

Then they find themselves smacking their heads saying, "Why didn't we figure this out when we were married?"
#DontGiveUp

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Hey! 👋🏾 We're Ayize and Aiyana. We wanted to take a minute to share a little about ourselves and get to know you better.

We're high school sweethearts. We've been together for 26 years, married for 19 and have 5 amazing kids that keep us on our toes constantly....lawd knows!

We're therapists and relationship coaches and have over 30 years of combined experience doing the work of helping to reveal what needs to be healed in folks and their relationships...

But, it all started with us. Early on in our relationship we went through some things...a whole lot. Trust was broken. Resentment was building. Communication was funky as hell....on and on and on...

We got stories for days....

But, look at us now! My God. Sometimes I still get goosebumps thinking about how far we've come! And we are grateful for everything we've been through....even the shitty stuff...because we now know it was preparing us for our individual and collective destiny to reflect to the world and specifically to our people that love, healing, blessings and growth are beyond possible for you and the one you love.

We are living witnesses.👐🏾

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Do you have a spouse or roommate?

Researchers estimate that almost 20 percent of married couples are in a roommate marriage....

For these 'roommate marriages,' once strong passion and emotional closeness have gradually morphed into silent routines and polite indifference.

Roommates are doing all the work of being married while getting few of the benefits...it literally makes no sense but it happens far often than many would like to admit.

STOP CO-EXISTING.

Get off your phone.
Initiate affection.
Do something new together.
Practice connection.
Work on your communication.

Do you want a spouse or a roommate???

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This was us Friday night...getting our date night on. There's a different experience I always have when I get my husband to myself all by myself.

We have different conversations.

We share more.

We flirt more.

We're more present for eachother in a way we would never be able to be if we didn't spend time together CONSISTENTLY. As in ON THE REGULAR.

When couples complain about not having time to spend together....We get it. Life is hella busy for most.

But, mostly we don't get it. We prioritize what is important at the end of the day.

And yes it IS hard to make time.
But we have to spend time with the one we say we love...

Or what is the point of it all anyway?

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Who and what do you hustle for? You say you hustlin FOR your family BUT you ain't hustlin WITH your family. If you serious about what you say....show up differently with and for your queen. It may cost you time and intention...but I promise you she will give you the world.

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