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Ayize and Aiyana Ma’at are firm believers in the fact that if we, as human beings, want to have the kind of relationships and life that many only dream of–we must Stop Playing and Start Pushing ourselves to the next level.

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Ayize and Aiyana Ma’at’s love and dedication has been an inspiration to many as they demonstrate their commitment to increasing the quality of relationships throughout the world.

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Meet The Ma’at’s

Ayize and Aiyana Ma’at’s love and dedication has been an inspiration to many as they demonstrate their commitment to increasing the quality of relationships throughout the world.

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Black Man.... Own Your ISH!!

Black Man.... Own Your ISH!!

The title of this video really says it all. Black men are Kings.
It’s Not About Oral Sex…..Or Is It?

It's Not About Oral Sex.....Or Is It?

I am in need of guidance. I am a 34 year old black male who…
We Dare You To Compromise In Your Relationship

We Dare You To Compromise In Your Relationship

Relationships are all about give and take. It's those folks who are soooo committed to standing...
Pushing Through Chaos To Experience Connection

Pushing Through Chaos To Experience Connection

Pssst. We've got a secret for you. You've got to prioritize your relationship. There will always be stress of some sort that you're dealing with (even the good kind).
Is It Ok For A Wife To Have A Hickey?

Is It Ok For A Wife To Have A Hickey?

Sometimes couples in the heat of the moment get real passionate and leave evidence of their sexual rendezvous.
Self Esteem 101. STOP Comparing Yourself!

Self Esteem 101. STOP Comparing Yourself!

This is for my sistas! From the time we are little we begin the self demeaning act of comparing ourselves to others.

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Becoming One

Dealing With Holidays & The In-Laws

How have you dealt with special days like Christmas, Thanksgiving, Fourth of July, Easter, Memorial Day, and birthdays? Most of us might think only in terms of the way we grew up, perhaps with Mom and Dad, and expect these occasions to be celebrated the same way.   The only problem, now that you’re married, […]

Finding Room For Family Time In A Fast Paced World

By Steven C. Sometimes work schedules stretch mothers and fathers to the breaking point with little time left for the people who matter most: children. Thankfully, spending time with family is more than ticking away the hours of a dull day; it is about quality interaction between parents and children. Even though it may seem […]

Secrets Your Mom NEVER Told You About Love, Marriage, & Money

By Evelyn Cole 1. The honeymoon was over before it began. Cousin Joe came to your parents’ wedding reception drunk, made a speech about the bride and her old boyfriend, infuriating your father. His father kicked Joe in the shins. Joe howled with rage. The best man dragged him outside and your mother spilled red […]

Marriage & Money 101: Stop Trippin & Let The Best Money Manager Manage The Money!

By Aiyana Ma’at I think it’s so interesting how easily we can get caught up in how we think things are “supposed to be” in our marriages. I can’t tell you how many times Ayize and I have talked this “money issue” over with couples. We hear from so many men that say they want […]

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Fatherhood and The Central Park Five

On 5/19/2019 I had the fortunate experience of attending a Q & A following a screening at the SVA Theatre of Ava Duvernay’s “When They See Us”. This 4 part mini series is a dramatic depiction of Korey Wise, Yusef Salaam, Kevin Richardson, Antron McCray, and Raymond Santana’s youth being stolen from them as they […]

BLAM Is Looking For One Lucky Couple To Be Coached For FREE By Ayize & Aiyana In A Google Hangout LIVE On Air Session!

By Ayize & Aiyana Ma’at Yup, you read that right. We’re looking for one courageous couple to participate in a LIVE On Air Google Hangout with us. You will both share your issue and what you’re having difficulty with in your relationship and we will give you a professional balanced, un-biased real perspective from both […]

Finding Room For Family Time In A Fast Paced World

By Steven C. Sometimes work schedules stretch mothers and fathers to the breaking point with little time left for the people who matter most: children. Thankfully, spending time with family is more than ticking away the hours of a dull day; it is about quality interaction between parents and children. Even though it may seem […]

Happy 9th Wedding Anniversary to Coma & Daphney Weston!!!

By Team BLAM We are celebrating Coma & Daphney Weston today! It’s their Anniversary! Daphney shared some of her thoughts about their relationship and how she feels about being married to the one she loves.  Check out her interview below. Q: How did the two of you meet? We met when we where 16 and 14. […]

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