Question…do you have a bucket list?  How about a bucket list for your marriage?  If so …what does that look like?  Marriages are comprised of several different components, i.e. intimacy, money, parenting, sex, etc.  If you were to write down several things that you want to do in your marriage before you or your spouse dies…what would those things be.  The intention of this exercise is not for you to reflect on your mortality, but rather for you to establish some goals that you and your spouse can get excited about looking forward to.  So take each of the main categories in the life of your relationship and create a bucket list for that category.  To create some spark and excitement immediately in your relationship how bout you start with the