While sitting across the room from a couple, I watched his fidgety movements shout an ensnaring tale capturing a 27 year history of hesitation. His ambivalence didn’t begin with her….however she views herself as the VICTIM of his indecision, his restlessness, his wandering eye…his failure to fully commit to her. Her pain cast a cloudy glow around her that she’s been trying to shake for years. His shame oozes from his pours…he doesn’t know how to shelter his soul from the storm that’s been hovering above him for years. He hides…she hides. They both are tormented…they both are torn…they both are hurt. As they sit before us…we work with them…and watch the subtle dance of healing begin.