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A couple of weeks ago my wife and I visited some friends in Atlanta. During that trip something occurred

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Spending time with each other each and every day i

Spending time with each other each and every day is a secret ingredient to making your marriage last a lifetime. #NoExcuses #MakeTheTime

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One of the things we tell individuals & couples th

One of the things we tell individuals & couples that we work with is that "You teach people how to treat you."

Fam....we gotta cut it with the ni*ger!sh behavior. It ain't hard....STOP THROWING TRASH ON THE GROUND.

If we don't respect who we are and what we got....respect ain't gonna be what we get.

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🗣 Ladies....listen up...here are 10 things men

🗣 Ladies....listen up...here are 10 things men say to deflect, gaslight, and make you feel like YOU ARE THE REASON the relationship is failing...even when they’ve already checked out and ain't putting in the work.

You’re not crazy. You’re not asking for too much.

You’re just finally seeing things clearly. 🙌🏾

1. "I’m never gonna make you happy."
Translation: It’s easier to label you as impossible than admit I’ve stopped trying.

2. "If you want a divorce… then you file."
Translation: I don’t want to be the bad guy, so I’ll make you pull the trigger.

3. "You’re the one with the trust issues."
Translation: Let’s ignore my actual behavior and focus on your insecurities instead.

4. "Your daddy issues are why you have a problem with me."
Translation: Your pain is convenient for me to weaponize so I don’t have to reflect.

5. "I’ve already apologized. What else do you want?"
Translation: I said the words. I don’t actually care about repairing anything.

6. "You overthink everything...making a big deal out of nothing."
Translation: I don’t want you analyzing what’s really going on, so I’ll shame your intuition.

7. "You were never satisfied, no matter what I did."
Translation: I’m rewriting the narrative so I can walk away without guilt.

8. "You need therapy."
Translation: You’re the broken one ...not the relationship, and definitely not me.

9. "You’re the one who changed."
Translation: The new you...doesn't accept me, and now I resent you for it.

10. "I’m a good man… I work hard… I’m a good father."

Translation: I check the basic boxes, so you don’t get to call me out. If you’re unhappy, that’s your issue...not mine.

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You’re hoping for more connection, more effort,

You’re hoping for more connection, more effort, more love... but haven’t said a word. And when it goes unspoken, it festers.

That weight turns into resentment.
That resentment turns into silence.
And that silence? It kills relationships slowly.

You deserve more than a half-assed connection.

You deserve to be heard, held, and honestly seen.
But you gotta speak up first.

Tag your partner.
Send this video.
Start the conversation.

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When I think back to what we’ve come through tog

When I think back to what we’ve come through together I’m just amazed… God is so good and life is amazing when you get to the other side of the issues.♥️♥️♥️

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Let’s be real for a minute. Everybody says they

Let’s be real for a minute.
Everybody says they want intimacy and connection in their relationship… but are you actually doing what it takes to get it?

Most of us think we’re doing way more than we really are.

You say you want closeness. But are you having the hard conversations?

Are you speaking their love language consistently?

Are you creating space for connection...or just assuming it should happen?

If we asked your partner, would they say you’re showing up the way you think you are?

Here’s the truth:

A lot of us are sitting on conversations we know we need to have.

A lot of us are sitting in separate parts of the house feeling disconnected...thinking about what we want but not doing anything to create it.

Unmet expectations in marriage often come from unspoken needs.

And unspoken needs?

They’re usually rooted in childhood wounds.

Some of us were never taught how to ask for what we need especially emotionally.
We were told to be seen, not heard.” So we learned to suppress, to stay quiet, to hope the other person would just know.

But they don’t.
They can’t.
And you won’t get what you need if you don’t open your mouth. 🎯

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How does someone who cheats on their spouse feel?

How does someone who cheats on their spouse feel? How do they feel when they've given their spouse a disease? This is heavy. We're sharing our thoughts based on our experiences working with couples

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Building healthy relationships are about having co

Building healthy relationships are about having courage and taking risks. Do you have rhe courage to ask? Do you have the courage to say "yes"? Do you have the courage to lean in?

Sometimes it's in simple ways that we resist taking risk. Make it easy for your boo to connect with you. Make room for him/her and scooch on over.

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