By Charlotte Evans
Men may think that the “101 Guide To What A Woman Wants” manual that they carry around in their heads is foolproof – but actually, it may contain a lot of basic myths and errors about women’s sexuality – errors that can defnitely lead to some fizzle in the bedroom.
That’s because — after learning the facts of life — most of us are left to figure out sex for ourselves. Guys tend to take a lot of cues from adult movies, and we all know how true-to-life those are. Experience may help, but many women can be shy when talking about what they like.
Mistake 1: You Assume You Know What She Wants
Men often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they’ve done with other women. But remember that women aren’t all the same – what may feel good to one person, or where they like to be touched, may be completely different with someone else.
Mistake 2: You Assume You Have All She Needs
Some women can’t have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think something is wrong if a woman needs a vibrator.
Mistake 3: You Assume That Sex Feels The Same for Men and Women
Paget says there tends to be a “huge disconnect” between men and women in terms of perceptions about what feels good. In reality, the inside of the vagina is probably less sensitive than the outer parts for most women. Also, deep thrusting may not feel so nice on the receiving end. If the penis is too long, it can feel like you’re getting punched in the stomach or similar to how a man feels if he’s hit in the testicle area.
Mistake 4: You Assume You Know Your Way Around a Woman’s Anatomy
Most guys know generally what a clitoris is and where to find it. That’s not to say that they really understand it, though. Though decades of science has proved this to be wrong, the belief that women must be able to orgasm from vaginal penetration stubbornly persists.
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