By Joseph Matthews My friends, a question for you… You have heard the term “Nice guys finish last”, correct? Well, I’m here to tell you that saying is 100% true! But not for the reasons you may think. Being a “Nice Guy” with women doesn’t work, not because you get too caught […]
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By Candace Bagwell New research published in the 2010 American Journal of Men’s Health shows that fatherhood can dramatically alter a man’s behavior. The 18-month study of 230 divorced fathers of kids ages 4-11 found that father involvement led to better health choices such as drinking less alcohol. Study results also found that the hormonal […]
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from BlackBlueDog.com With the rate of unemployment reaching record highs across the country in the last few years, many men are at home while the women in their lives are at work. If you look at the statistics in Black communities, the statistics get worse-much worse. The rate of unemployment among Black men has been […]
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By Team BLAM Considering the historical and current cultural climate in America, it’s hard to be an African American and totally avoid internalizing and/or projecting stereotypes about black men that in many ways further perpetuate discord in black relationships. Yes…in some way or another we are ALL guilty of making the black man look like […]
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By Jaustin We’re all busy, so any time you can knock a few things off the to-do list is a good time. Not only do we want to save time, we want to save mental energy—something we spend a lot of on our men, and often, don’t need to. The reality is, we’re more sensitive […]
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By Marcus Osborne One of the fabrications in our culture that has always driven me bonkers is the myth that “real” men don’t succumb to worry or stress. It’s the idea that guys are somehow genetically engineered to shake off the rigors of everyday life– that no guy should crack under pressure, fear or insecurity. […]
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By Auntie Artichoke Many fathers assume discipline means yelling, threatening or spanking children when their behavior is unacceptable. However, discipline can be interpreted in many ways and dealt with differently among different fathers. The first thing to know about discipline is the two ways it can be interpreted. Some men may be confusing discipline — which means […]
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By Cucan Pemo How do you keep the passion burning even after you’ve said “I do”? Marriage should be a happy time for a couple. You’ve survived the rigors of dating and courtship. Now it’s time to reap the rewards and spend a pleasant life together. But many couples find marriage to be a difficult […]
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By Jack Conway I’m going to tell you about the Six Don’ts of Internet dating. These are things you should never do when it comes to picking up women online, regardless of how much coffee you drank. 1- When conversing through e-mail, don’t write your life story Nothing turns off a woman more than a […]
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By Damon Young While most will probably remember 2012 as the “Year Of The YOLO” (and by “most” I mean “like seven people“), it holds special significance for me because it’ll likely be the first year since 2002 where I spent the entire year single. I haven’t completed a full calender year yet — May will make […]
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Is Being “Mr. Nice Guy” Getting In The Way Of Your Love Life?
/in Black Men, Singles & Dating/byBy Joseph Matthews My friends, a question for you… You have heard the term “Nice guys finish last”, correct? Well, I’m here to tell you that saying is 100% true! But not for the reasons you may think. Being a “Nice Guy” with women doesn’t work, not because you get too caught […]
The Impact Of Fatherhood On Men
/in Black Men, Fatherhood/byBy Candace Bagwell New research published in the 2010 American Journal of Men’s Health shows that fatherhood can dramatically alter a man’s behavior. The 18-month study of 230 divorced fathers of kids ages 4-11 found that father involvement led to better health choices such as drinking less alcohol. Study results also found that the hormonal […]
Is Society And The Media On A Huge Campaign To ‘Feminize’ Men?
/in Black Men/byfrom BlackBlueDog.com With the rate of unemployment reaching record highs across the country in the last few years, many men are at home while the women in their lives are at work. If you look at the statistics in Black communities, the statistics get worse-much worse. The rate of unemployment among Black men has been […]
Stereotypes About Black Men That AIN’T Always True
/in Black Men/byBy Team BLAM Considering the historical and current cultural climate in America, it’s hard to be an African American and totally avoid internalizing and/or projecting stereotypes about black men that in many ways further perpetuate discord in black relationships. Yes…in some way or another we are ALL guilty of making the black man look like […]
6 Things Your Man Could Care Less That You Do
/in Black Men, Love & Marriage/byBy Jaustin We’re all busy, so any time you can knock a few things off the to-do list is a good time. Not only do we want to save time, we want to save mental energy—something we spend a lot of on our men, and often, don’t need to. The reality is, we’re more sensitive […]
4 Things Guys Worry About
/in Black Men/byBy Marcus Osborne One of the fabrications in our culture that has always driven me bonkers is the myth that “real” men don’t succumb to worry or stress. It’s the idea that guys are somehow genetically engineered to shake off the rigors of everyday life– that no guy should crack under pressure, fear or insecurity. […]
Fatherhood And Discipline: 5 Tips On Balancing Being Firm And Bonding
/in Black Men, Fatherhood, Parenting/byBy Auntie Artichoke Many fathers assume discipline means yelling, threatening or spanking children when their behavior is unacceptable. However, discipline can be interpreted in many ways and dealt with differently among different fathers. The first thing to know about discipline is the two ways it can be interpreted. Some men may be confusing discipline — which means […]
5 Instant TURN OFF’S For Men
/in A Man's Point Of View, Black Men/byBy Cucan Pemo How do you keep the passion burning even after you’ve said “I do”? Marriage should be a happy time for a couple. You’ve survived the rigors of dating and courtship. Now it’s time to reap the rewards and spend a pleasant life together. But many couples find marriage to be a difficult […]
The 6 Don’ts Of Online Dating For Men
/in Black Men, Singles & Dating/byBy Jack Conway I’m going to tell you about the Six Don’ts of Internet dating. These are things you should never do when it comes to picking up women online, regardless of how much coffee you drank. 1- When conversing through e-mail, don’t write your life story Nothing turns off a woman more than a […]
5 Reasons Being A Single Man Sucks
/in A Man's Point Of View, Black Men, Singles & Dating/byBy Damon Young While most will probably remember 2012 as the “Year Of The YOLO” (and by “most” I mean “like seven people“), it holds special significance for me because it’ll likely be the first year since 2002 where I spent the entire year single. I haven’t completed a full calender year yet — May will make […]