It’s a common enough thought — I just chose the wrong person for a partner, and if given a chance, I will choose better (I hope) next time. I heard it just yesterday in the checkout stand at Long’s. Two women were talking about their former relationships and one spoke of her ex-husband as “the […]
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When one take under serious consideration the examination of the consequences of unresolved conflict is to enter into a seemingly bottomless dark pit one that had rarely been explored. I will approach the subject by discussing the symptomatic psychological disorder called “projection.” My hope is to bring into the bright light this particular psychological ddefense […]
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Whomever said or thinks that couples who love each other DO NOT disagree with each other, get pissed off with each other, yell at each other, or just flat out at times are “through” with each other IS LIVING IN A STATE OF DENIAL. One of the key ingredients of a healthy and loving relationship […]
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By K.S. Louman There is no misconception that marriage is easy. Most people know that marriage takes a lot of work, and like any relationship, it evolves – developing a deeper understanding of one another. This evolution of your relationship also creates new challenges – including many bad habits which, if you can identify and […]
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By Mark Webb With the divorce rate as high as it is, you must do everything possible to strengthen and protect your marriage. You can’t always have your way or give in to your feelings. You have to discipline yourself to do the right thing. You must do what is in the best interest of […]
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By Dr. Tony Fiore Rudy and Marjorie were on the verge of divorce. Married 12 years, they had constant verbal battles ending in what therapists call emotional disengagement- meaning that they simply ignored each other for days on end. Emotionally, they were simmering inside and also lonely for each other, but were unable to reach […]
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By Jack Ito Are you married, but wishing your relationship was more like it was before you were married? You are not alone. When a relationship starts out, both men and women are interested in making a good impression, getting a positive response, having a good time, and increasing intimacy. The relationship feels exciting, the […]
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Dr. Edward Wilson It’s a common, if quiet, complaint heard over lunch, or at breaks in meetings, at the Chamber of Commerce mixer, or the League of Women Voters retreat. “My husband finally quit drinking, attends AA, and life is certainly calmer, but… ” The “buts” are varied, but essentially come down to the fact […]
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By Margaret Paul, Ph.D. “Love has nothing to do with fairness. Love is Love.” –Susan Page, Why Talking is Not Enough “It’s not fair!” How often have you heard this from young or adolescent siblings? I grew up as an only child, so I was never indoctrinated with the concept of fairness. Not growing up […]
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By Neil Warner When disputes are frequent and people don’t bother even listening to the other side, the gap widens and relationships get sour. Hatred and contempt fill the gap with negative emotions difficult to dilute. You can be tempted to fight fire with fire and answer perceived aggressions with more aggression. We need to […]
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Your Relationship Demands That You “Choose Better”
/in Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byIt’s a common enough thought — I just chose the wrong person for a partner, and if given a chance, I will choose better (I hope) next time. I heard it just yesterday in the checkout stand at Long’s. Two women were talking about their former relationships and one spoke of her ex-husband as “the […]
Unresolved Stuff May Be Damaging Your Relationship
/in Conflict Management/byWhen one take under serious consideration the examination of the consequences of unresolved conflict is to enter into a seemingly bottomless dark pit one that had rarely been explored. I will approach the subject by discussing the symptomatic psychological disorder called “projection.” My hope is to bring into the bright light this particular psychological ddefense […]
I Ain’t Feeling You Right Now
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byWhomever said or thinks that couples who love each other DO NOT disagree with each other, get pissed off with each other, yell at each other, or just flat out at times are “through” with each other IS LIVING IN A STATE OF DENIAL. One of the key ingredients of a healthy and loving relationship […]
5 Bad Habits You’ve Developed In Your Marriage
/in Becoming One, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy K.S. Louman There is no misconception that marriage is easy. Most people know that marriage takes a lot of work, and like any relationship, it evolves – developing a deeper understanding of one another. This evolution of your relationship also creates new challenges – including many bad habits which, if you can identify and […]
Ten Do’s And Dont’s Of A Happy Marriage
/in Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Mark Webb With the divorce rate as high as it is, you must do everything possible to strengthen and protect your marriage. You can’t always have your way or give in to your feelings. You have to discipline yourself to do the right thing. You must do what is in the best interest of […]
6 Tools You Can Use To Fix A Broken Marriage
/in Conflict Management/byBy Dr. Tony Fiore Rudy and Marjorie were on the verge of divorce. Married 12 years, they had constant verbal battles ending in what therapists call emotional disengagement- meaning that they simply ignored each other for days on end. Emotionally, they were simmering inside and also lonely for each other, but were unable to reach […]
How To Renew Your Relationship After You Start To Feel Like Roommates
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Jack Ito Are you married, but wishing your relationship was more like it was before you were married? You are not alone. When a relationship starts out, both men and women are interested in making a good impression, getting a positive response, having a good time, and increasing intimacy. The relationship feels exciting, the […]
He Quit Drinking BUT I’m Still Being Shut Out
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byDr. Edward Wilson It’s a common, if quiet, complaint heard over lunch, or at breaks in meetings, at the Chamber of Commerce mixer, or the League of Women Voters retreat. “My husband finally quit drinking, attends AA, and life is certainly calmer, but… ” The “buts” are varied, but essentially come down to the fact […]
How Important Is Fairness In Your Relationship?
/in Conflict Management/byBy Margaret Paul, Ph.D. “Love has nothing to do with fairness. Love is Love.” –Susan Page, Why Talking is Not Enough “It’s not fair!” How often have you heard this from young or adolescent siblings? I grew up as an only child, so I was never indoctrinated with the concept of fairness. Not growing up […]
How To Fix A Broken Relationship
/in Conflict Management/byBy Neil Warner When disputes are frequent and people don’t bother even listening to the other side, the gap widens and relationships get sour. Hatred and contempt fill the gap with negative emotions difficult to dilute. You can be tempted to fight fire with fire and answer perceived aggressions with more aggression. We need to […]