By Team BLAM
Man O’ Man do we have some stories. As many of you know we’ve been together since we were 17. During the time that we were together in high school we managed a budding relationship fueled by curiosity, friendship, and HORMONES. LOL. Sometimes in our moments of reflection we actually look at each other and say “I can’t believe we were brave enough to do that.” Yall know what we’re talking about….those “sneak-n-freak” sessions. If you don’t know what we’re talking about…too bad…you missed out. Just kidding. What’s funny is that we were always trying to find a way to get cozy with each other while remaining considerate of “The Rules” our parents had in place. You know “The Rules” ….Company must leave before midnight, No boy should be in your bedroom, Keep your bedroom door open, Be back in the house by 1. Yeah those rules. While we had the utmost respect for “The Rules”…rules are meant to be broken…especially by teenagers. There were several times where we had to deal with “The Conversation” from our parents. It’s all good though..we knew we were destined to be together.
Fast forward 17 years and our world has drastically changed. Our connection has intensified and we now have 4 wonderful children all under the age of 10. With that being said….we know in about 10 years we’ll probably be caught in a tornado of issues dealing with teenage children. We’re ready, willing, and able for all that may come our way….so we think. LOL.
The other day we received a question from one of our viewers that prompted this post. They asked us what do we think about allowing your teenage children to have SEX in your home. Of course we were like WOW….if this was on the table back when we were teenagers we’d probably have 30 kids lol. Apparently this isn’t an anomoly…more and more parents are allowing there children to have sex in their homes because they feel like it is safer (i.e. reduces promiscuity and the chance of catching diseases) and leads to a more open and honest relationship with the parents. Oh…not to mention avoiding that infamous knock on the window by the police. So BLAM Fam we want to know what yall think. Would you allow your children to have sex in your home if they’re in a committed relationship? To make it more interesting we’ll throw two more questions in there because we know parents are allowing these as well:
Would you allow your teenager/young adult to smoke weed in your home?
Would you allow your 19 or 20 year old to drink alcohol in your home?
BLAM Fam let us know what you think….of course the common argument is that “I’d rather them do it in my house and I know what they’re doing…vs… do it out in the streets and get caught up.”