2 Simple But Powerful Ways To Strengthen The Bond Between Marriage & Romance

By Hayden Danczak

The words marriage and romance sometimes mix like oil and vinegar for a lot of married couples. Just think about it for a second. When was the last time you and your spouse spent some quality time together outside of the bedroom? A lot of people will not be able to remember the last time! One of the biggest reasons that marriages start to fail, can be directly attributed to a lack of romance in the marriage. In order for any marriage to thrive and remain healthy, it is important that married couples work at keeping the romance spark alive in their relationship.

While it sounds nice to hear that keeping the romance in your marriage alive will help it to remain healthy, it is not always easy. So how do you go about keeping marriage and romance together in your marriage? For starters, it is important that you consider your spouse’s needs, wants, or interests in mind. Romance is a two way street and you must be able to compromise with your spouse in order to maintain a happy and healthy relationship.

Marriage and romance doesn’t have to be complicated. In fact probably the most important first step in rekindling your romance is through simple daily affection. Now this may sound trivial and not to exciting, but the fact is, that this should be the foundation for romance. We sometimes get too caught up in the daily grind of work, family, chores, etc. and forget to do the little things that allowed us to fall in love in the first place.

Affection doesn’t cost anything and it is pleasurable to both give and receive. Remember a simple “I love you,” goes a long way. So what are some easy ways to show your affection? Simple things such as holding hands, kissing, and embracing your spouse can really show your affection. Don’t be afraid to show affection in public (don’t get too crazy) it can really prove to your spouse that you want others to know just how much you care about them which is important.

I’d say the other important part to keeping romance alive is spending alone time with your partner. Just like showing affection, many married couples, stop going out on dates. Whether it’s a special night alone in the house or a romantic night out on the town, it is vital that you spend time alone with your spouse. Going out on a date should not be a complicated process. Make it exciting, and something for the two of you to look forward to.

There are a couple of ways to set up a date that can be both exciting and memorable. You could plan a surprise weekend getaway for you and your spouse. This builds up excitement and can really ignite the romantic fire. Or, simply plan a night out together without the kids. It doesn’t matter whether its dinner and a movie, or stopping by the local bar to have a couple of drinks, the important thing is that you and your spouse are spending time alone to reconnect.

Romance needs to be an essential part of any healthy marriage. Remember, keeping romance alive is not and should not be difficult. Simple things that we may take for granted such as showing daily affection are very powerful actions. Also, spending time alone together can really keep the marriage away from the mundane of the daily grind. Just remember, if you want to keep the chemistry between marriage and romance flowing, then you have to put forth the effort and show your spouse that they are still very much an important and necessary part of your life.

Hayden Danczak is the owner of Makeamarriagework.net. Visit the site today.

5 replies
  1. Elle
    Elle says:

    i agree. i like it because it appears our relationship awareness is evolving. we are getting past intimacy issues, trust ettiquettes, communication factors and other relationship steps. it is good to see and be apart of result in relationships. to be able to give daily affection instead of working on something daily is a milestone in relationships. to be able to spend time alone in a relationship is a luxury with both things speaking of being in a greater relationship than when you started the journey. trouble or problems can't shake your relationship/marriage. good times and good days seem to be happening more than stress. the same things are happening but you are looking at them differently. so now new things that are better have to come your way.

    keeping things simple denotes of genuis.
    My recent post HOW DOES IT FEEL TO BE IN LOVE?

  2. martin mau
    martin mau says:

    being together rekindling the love once shared during courtship makes the marriage stronger

  3. Briana Myricks
    Briana Myricks says:

    Maintaining the romance is so important in a marriage. It's so easy to just talk business and miss out on the love. Hubby and I have a quick weekend getaway planned this weekend to celebrate 5 years together. Looking forward to i!

  4. Denise
    Denise says:

    Ok, so me and hubby really need to work on the daily affection thing. I'm really not an affectionate person and my husband is except that he works so much that he's too tired. Marriage is hard but I wouldn't have it any other way because I know that my husband is the one God sent to me so there's not much I won't do, try, or work on.

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