It’s A Struggle To Become Who You Are Supposed To Be. Aiyana Shares……

by Aiyana Ma’at Becoming “who you are supposed to be” is not easy. It requires courage, clarity, and plain old work. In this show Aiyana has a “moment” and shares where in her life she has been doing more playing than pushing.

Her playing has looked like “confusion”. You know …when there’s something you SAY you want to do or be but then you don’t act as if you do. You don’t move in a way that shows you do. You don’t make decisions that demonstrate that you really want what you say. Instead, you feel confused and you say “I’m confused”. Well, here we call confusion out for what it really is…..

At the end of the day becoming who you are supposed to be is a process—it doesn’t happen over night. Tune in for a word of encouragement to continue pushing forward as you reach for your destiny.

B Intentional Family, Are there places where you find your actions aren’t lining up with what you say? What are some concrete ways we can all hold ourselves more accountable for being all that we were created to be?

16 replies
  1. Traci Hill Femister
    Traci Hill Femister says:

    WOW Kai! Loved it! Get still and be real! this is a timely message as we head into the New Year! And we have to remember not to be too hard on ourselves and take small steps vs. no steps…cause every step is a step in the right direction.

  2. Cheryl
    Cheryl says:

    Wow, I can't barely breathe after this one! You ain't said nothin but a word! Thank you for the heartfelt reminder that we all have a purpose. It is way too easy to get caught up in the monotony of life and forget that there is a purpose. " A charge to keep I have, a God to glorify"…

  3. Cynthia
    Cynthia says:

    Aiyana, your courage to be your authentic self is inspiring to more people than you know. It took me years to shake off what everyone else thought and to begin pushing towards who God created me to be. This was an awesome and heartfelt message. Walk into your space and fulfill your destiny.

  4. Kiesha
    Kiesha says:

    Aiyana, thank you!! Just last night I was talking to my husband about being confused. My issue, was that I just found a decent paying job & because of this didn't finish this semester of college. This job requires alot of my time & I just didn't have the energy to complete this semester. I was telling him how I was just gone to give up on school & just work, as I was saying this I was crying. Today you have helped me realize that I was crying because social work is my dream, what I have a passion for. You have given me the motivation to continue on with my dream. My authentic self: Helping those that are overlooked & unable to help themselves. This job I have just started is a blessing & is helping me provide for my family financially but it is a job, not my reason for being here! Thank you again 🙂

  5. ymb87
    ymb87 says:

    Aiyana – that was a very empowering message – I appreciate how open, frank, and honest you are in your posts! You have inspired me to continue aspiring to be my most true, authentic self! I have started the academic journey once again and feel that the road, while long and winding, will lead to better things and a better me….thank you for reminding me to regard my own purpose highly and to use my testimony to uplift and enlighten others!!!

  6. Whyte23
    Whyte23 says:

    Very Powerful and Awesome to share your feelings and honesty to speak the TRUTH!
    WE (Marcus n Gloria) love YOU GUYS!

    I would like to share what's on my heart……after viewing your today's Inspiration of TRUTH!
    I hope you would not mind….This helped me earlier this year!

    You never find yourself until you face the truth. – Pearl Bailey
    Life is a process and its lessons are taught to us each day. It may be that what we want is removed for a while so we can concentrate on something else – something that will provide better answers.
    Sometimes the less you try to find the source of what you are missing, the closer you become to finding the answer. At the end of the day you are here; you are a person of tremendous value and worth; and you are not missing.
    Focus on nurturing you soul. Respond to the nudge by acknowledging its existence, but stay grounded with what you are doing and stay within your heart. The missing piece will fall into place naturally (but it does take plain old work). When it does, you will know its truth by how it fits.

    I feel the greatest truth is having the courage to face yourself. To meet what is true for you.

    Aiyana, I have received your message loud and clear….Thanks for sharing Sis!


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  7. Kandi
    Kandi says:

    You about to make me quit my job today…getting me all worked up and stuff. LOL Thanks for showing us what transparency looks like.

  8. LaShone
    LaShone says:

    Aiyana, I appreciate the honesty and inspiration that you give to your viewers. You have giving me the tools I need to start focusing on what my real purpose is on this earth. You are an inspiration to me.

  9. Tammy
    Tammy says:

    Aiyana, you spoke to my heart today. Thank you so very much. Getting ready to get still.

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