Why do we allow ourselves to deal with the same ish over and over again? Why do we ignore things we know we need to address? Why do we rationalize our partner’s behavior and tell ourselves lies? Do we think we can’t handle the truth? Do we really not want to know the truth? At […]
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Are you devoting all of your time and attention to what’s going on with reality t.v. and failing to pay attention to the reality of your relationship? 9 times ouf 10 when a relationship is on the brink of despair and at the door of no retuen and one partner claims to be totally surprised […]
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By Margaret Paul, Ph.D. The fear of rejection is a huge issue in relationships. For some, the fear is so huge that it stops them from being in a relationship. For others, it plagues them throughout their relationships and causes much anxiety. Rejection is a part of life, and learning to lovingly manage it is very important to […]
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By Dr. Richard Nicastro Why is it that we have no problem lounging around in our favorite sweatpants (with the hole in the knee) and our favorite threadbare T-shirt (with the rip in the sleeve) in front of our spouse/partner, but if our friends/co-workers were on the way over, we’d change into something “decent” in […]
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I Love You. 3 Simple…yet life changing words are often a forgotten part of our vocabulary. Everybody needs to feel love…everybody wants to feel love……so why don’t you take a moment, cuddle up with your boo and say….I Love You. They need it…and you need it too.
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How Do You Help The Helper? Viewer Question: I’ve recently come to find your page and to date I have found your articles and videos quite helpful. However, I haven’t found that you’ve discussed military marriages…. I’m married to an army officer. I knew that going in and I have absolutely no problem with it. […]
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By Ayize Ma’at Remember the fireworks? Remember anticipating the next time you saw his face. Remember that certain look (exclusively reserved for you) that he gave you when you entered the room. Remember those butterflies? What about those never ending phone calls (you hang up…no you hang up…no you hang up..until someone fell asleep). Remember […]
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By Ayize Ma’at While sitting across the room from a couple, I watched his fidgety movements shout an ensnaring tale capturing a 27 year history of hesitation. His ambivalence didn’t begin with her….however she views herself as the VICTIM of his indecision, his restlessness, his wandering eye…his failure to fully commit to her. Her pain […]
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By Eve We often think that just because we believe something, it is the truth, which is not always the case. As you know, the majority of people prior to 1492 believed that the earth was flat. That belief turned out to be wrong. Many, many of our beliefs, about everything from science to society, […]
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By Daryl Campbell Remember the early days of your dating relationship? What a time you both had. It seemed like every moment you got together it was music, fun and excitement. Some of your family and friends even hated to see you coming because the two of you were so into each other it made […]
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Believe Your Partner When They Show You Who They Are!
/in Love & Marriage/byWhy do we allow ourselves to deal with the same ish over and over again? Why do we ignore things we know we need to address? Why do we rationalize our partner’s behavior and tell ourselves lies? Do we think we can’t handle the truth? Do we really not want to know the truth? At […]
Are You Failing To Pay Attention To Your Partner?
/in Love & Marriage, Quality Time/byAre you devoting all of your time and attention to what’s going on with reality t.v. and failing to pay attention to the reality of your relationship? 9 times ouf 10 when a relationship is on the brink of despair and at the door of no retuen and one partner claims to be totally surprised […]
The Fear Of Rejection Is A Major Issue In Relationships
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Margaret Paul, Ph.D. The fear of rejection is a huge issue in relationships. For some, the fear is so huge that it stops them from being in a relationship. For others, it plagues them throughout their relationships and causes much anxiety. Rejection is a part of life, and learning to lovingly manage it is very important to […]
“LOVE” Won’t Help When “LIKE” Is What’s Needed
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Dr. Richard Nicastro Why is it that we have no problem lounging around in our favorite sweatpants (with the hole in the knee) and our favorite threadbare T-shirt (with the rip in the sleeve) in front of our spouse/partner, but if our friends/co-workers were on the way over, we’d change into something “decent” in […]
Why Don’t You Say “I Love You”?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Love & Marriage/byI Love You. 3 Simple…yet life changing words are often a forgotten part of our vocabulary. Everybody needs to feel love…everybody wants to feel love……so why don’t you take a moment, cuddle up with your boo and say….I Love You. They need it…and you need it too.
How Do You Help The Helper?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Love & Marriage/byHow Do You Help The Helper? Viewer Question: I’ve recently come to find your page and to date I have found your articles and videos quite helpful. However, I haven’t found that you’ve discussed military marriages…. I’m married to an army officer. I knew that going in and I have absolutely no problem with it. […]
You Don’t Look At Me Like You Used To
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Ayize Ma’at Remember the fireworks? Remember anticipating the next time you saw his face. Remember that certain look (exclusively reserved for you) that he gave you when you entered the room. Remember those butterflies? What about those never ending phone calls (you hang up…no you hang up…no you hang up..until someone fell asleep). Remember […]
Healing Is A Process….Let’s Begin
/in Becoming One, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Love & Marriage/byBy Ayize Ma’at While sitting across the room from a couple, I watched his fidgety movements shout an ensnaring tale capturing a 27 year history of hesitation. His ambivalence didn’t begin with her….however she views herself as the VICTIM of his indecision, his restlessness, his wandering eye…his failure to fully commit to her. Her pain […]
Your Beliefs Are Holding You Back In Your Relationship
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Eve We often think that just because we believe something, it is the truth, which is not always the case. As you know, the majority of people prior to 1492 believed that the earth was flat. That belief turned out to be wrong. Many, many of our beliefs, about everything from science to society, […]
The ROUTINE: An Often Overlooked Enemy Of Your Marriage
/in Love & Marriage, Quality Time/byBy Daryl Campbell Remember the early days of your dating relationship? What a time you both had. It seemed like every moment you got together it was music, fun and excitement. Some of your family and friends even hated to see you coming because the two of you were so into each other it made […]