By Team BLAM Finally, there’s a statistical analysis of relationship dynamics in the black community that offers a ray of hope instead of the persistent “gloom and doom” prophesy about black marriage that we’ve all become too familiar with. In light of a recent article in the Wall Street Journal suggesting an unconventional approach to […]
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By Team BLAM/Source:Tracy McMillan You want to get married. It’s taken a while to admit it. Saying it out loud — even in your mind — feels kind of desperate, kind of unfeminist, kind of definitely not you, or at least not any you that you recognize. Because you’re hardly like those girls on TLC […]
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By: Al -Lateef When I look at you, what I see is my future wife-to-be, only God himself more important in this life to me. You are much more than the woman I’m spending forever with; you’re my best friend, my confidant, my strength, my inspiration, my sun and my moon, the song in my […]
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First and foremost we at BLAM want to say congratulations to Sheryl Swoopes on her engagement. We truly wish you wedded bliss as you journey the road less traveled to deepen your understanding of self through marriage. We always say that marriage is for grown folks and that ain’t no lie. If you allow it..marriage […]
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[yframe url=’http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apSAaM0L5gA’] Okay, I am a 29 year old AA woman, my husband and i have been married for a little over 2 years now. I met my husband when we were in college, he was in his freshmen year and I was in my senior . I was fortunate in that where I had […]
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By Jane Saeman We have all heard that there are romance myths…Do you know the ten biggest romance myths? The first romance myth is that you should not have to work at romance and that if you are in love it should just happen without effort. Romance takes work; it takes spontaneity so that you […]
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By Dr. Lisa Love For the past five years I’ve been single again after a rocky marriage that didn’t go as I had hoped. At first, I was filled with enthusiasm as I looked forward into the future to get a fresh start at love. But, as many of you might have discovered, starting over […]
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By Alter Sage Co-dependency is a serious addiction requiring specialised relationship counselling. Co-dependency is twofold. Firstly, it is the natural, behavioural reaction that is appropriated by one person in a relationship when the other person is involved in some kind of addictive behaviour. However in the other instance, some co-dependants are not involved in any […]
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By Ayize Ma’at For the past couple of days I’ve been in a funk. Why?…I don’t know..I’m just in a funky mood. If I really take the time to think about it I can probably say… my kids are getting on my damn nerves….my wife is getting on my damn nerves…and I’m getting on my […]
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Hoodwinked and Bamboozled: New Research SHATTERS Myths About The Availability Of “GOOD” BLACK MEN!!!
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Team BLAM Finally, there’s a statistical analysis of relationship dynamics in the black community that offers a ray of hope instead of the persistent “gloom and doom” prophesy about black marriage that we’ve all become too familiar with. In light of a recent article in the Wall Street Journal suggesting an unconventional approach to […]
Why You’re Not Married
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Team BLAM/Source:Tracy McMillan You want to get married. It’s taken a while to admit it. Saying it out loud — even in your mind — feels kind of desperate, kind of unfeminist, kind of definitely not you, or at least not any you that you recognize. Because you’re hardly like those girls on TLC […]
It Doesn’t Take A Whole Day To Recognize Sunshine
/in A Man's Point Of View, Love & Marriage/byBy: Al -Lateef When I look at you, what I see is my future wife-to-be, only God himself more important in this life to me. You are much more than the woman I’m spending forever with; you’re my best friend, my confidant, my strength, my inspiration, my sun and my moon, the song in my […]
WNBA Star Sheryl Swoopes Announces She’s Engaged To A Man.. 6 Years After She Publicly Announced She Was Gay
/in Becoming One, Black Women, Love & Marriage/byFirst and foremost we at BLAM want to say congratulations to Sheryl Swoopes on her engagement. We truly wish you wedded bliss as you journey the road less traveled to deepen your understanding of self through marriage. We always say that marriage is for grown folks and that ain’t no lie. If you allow it..marriage […]
Is It Realistic To Stay In Relationship With My Husband While He Serves A HEFTY Jail Sentence?
/in Love & Marriage/by[yframe url=’http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apSAaM0L5gA’] Okay, I am a 29 year old AA woman, my husband and i have been married for a little over 2 years now. I met my husband when we were in college, he was in his freshmen year and I was in my senior . I was fortunate in that where I had […]
Don’t Be Misled By The 10 Biggest Romance Myths
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Jane Saeman We have all heard that there are romance myths…Do you know the ten biggest romance myths? The first romance myth is that you should not have to work at romance and that if you are in love it should just happen without effort. Romance takes work; it takes spontaneity so that you […]
Time Together: A Remedy For Healing Heartbreak.
/in Love & Marriage, Singles & Dating/byBy Dr. Lisa Love For the past five years I’ve been single again after a rocky marriage that didn’t go as I had hoped. At first, I was filled with enthusiasm as I looked forward into the future to get a fresh start at love. But, as many of you might have discovered, starting over […]
Co-Dependency Is A Serious Addiction That Could Be Hurting You And Your Relationship
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Alter Sage Co-dependency is a serious addiction requiring specialised relationship counselling. Co-dependency is twofold. Firstly, it is the natural, behavioural reaction that is appropriated by one person in a relationship when the other person is involved in some kind of addictive behaviour. However in the other instance, some co-dependants are not involved in any […]
Is Your Funk…Funking Up Your Relationship?
/in Black Family, Love & Marriage/byBy Ayize Ma’at For the past couple of days I’ve been in a funk. Why?…I don’t know..I’m just in a funky mood. If I really take the time to think about it I can probably say… my kids are getting on my damn nerves….my wife is getting on my damn nerves…and I’m getting on my […]
Black Folks, Double Consciousness, & The 4h Of July. What It All Means To Me
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Aiyana Ma’at Growing up, the 4th of July wasn’t a really big deal in my house. Don’t get me wrong