By Team BLAM
We are celebrating Coma & Daphney Weston today! It’s their Anniversary! Daphney shared some of her thoughts about their relationship and how she feels about being married to the one she loves. Check out her interview below.
Q: How did the two of you meet?
We met when we where 16 and 14. My husband would say 15 and 13. His aunt is one of my friends that is how we met.
Q: How did you know that your spouse was “the one” you wanted to spend the rest of your life with?
My husband and I broke up for a few years but we were always friends. He is in the army. He came home one weekend and we fell in love all over again. 2 weeks later we married in the court house.
Q: What have you learned about yourself from being married?
I have learned that you must put God First always. Also I can love someone as much as I love myself in a relationship and that you can not be selfish. You must compromise or it will never work. And there is no need to always have the last word, never…
Never go to bed mad. Agree to disagree and never listen to the bitter girlfriend who is single and mad all the time. She wants you unhappy because she is—by that I mean do not put everyone in your marriage.
Q: What is the thing you love most about being married?
What I love is that fact I wake up everyday to someone who loves me for me I do not have to change to fit an image and he loves me just for being me
Q: What do you both hope to accomplish in the future?
Just to be better Christians so that we may keep our marriage strong and and more productive in life and in church just better people
Q:What advice would you give to dating couples or newlyweds if you could only tell them one thing?
If you do not think you have a future or this person is not marriage material (same goals/plans) do not waste your time. Life is to short to waste your energy to go nowhere. It makes no sense to give yourself to an unworthy person. Value your time. If you do that you will be much happier in life with yourself, your marriage and your relationship.
I Woke Up To This by Coma Weston
When years are passing by like days,
and in my hand your hand is placed,
a knowing smile crosses your face,
a simple touch can still make my heart race.
When I can see my soul in your eyes,
and you see your soul in mine we realize,
that a love so deep can harbor no lies,
where our only tears shed were happy tears we’ve cried.
I love you as much now as I ever did before,
if possible, I may even love you more,
all starting from a feeling we did not ignore,
a feeling of connection we chose to explore.
I don’t know what it is that you saw in me,
what I saw in you was the utmost happiness
that can ever be,
even more so on the day when you and I
I can still smile and say with love and
truth Honey, I love you…Happy Anniversary.
Happy Anniversary Coma & Daphney!!!!!!
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