Isn’t A BJ Enough? I Have To Swallow Too?

Hello Ma’at’s,

I enjoy giving oral sex to my man, but there is one issue.  He says it’s a small issue but I think it’s pretty big…to both he and I.  I won’t swallow.  I can’t stand the way it taste or feels in my mouth.  He says it’s important to him and if I really loved him I would do it.

Sincerely,

The Disgusted Woman/Wife.

13 replies
  1. leonabanks
    leonabanks says:

    This website is entitled Black LOVE and MARRIAGE. Not Degradation or let's turn our beautiful black women into the pigs that wigger women have become. Their mouths are nothing but TOILET BOWLS. When I deal with them, they eat of of paper plates and plastic cups. They want to greet me with a kiss…..Hell No!! A hug is just fine.

    • Cassenorp
      Cassenorp says:

      Is it me, but does leonabanks sound crazy? I accept the possibility that it may just be me. She is either crazy and/or been hurt several time..on an extreme level.

  2. leonabanks
    leonabanks says:

    I also have dealt with other women who went all out…..the man is no longer with them or they are doing cut throat on them every chance they get. If he wants to ejaculate from oral sex, why do you think they have strawberry, chocolate, banana etc….condoms? If he wants to go all the way, tell him this is the only way this is going to go down. If he has a hard time feeling something through a condom…put on an x-rated cartoon to help him along. I say cartoon because I don’t want to encourage any woman or man for that matter to degrade themselves. Try to get the family guy, The Proud Family, or any other cartoon where the people are married. They have this black cartoon that comes in x-rated. I just can’t think of it right now. But you know where I’m coming from. DO NOT LET ANYONE DO ANYTHING TO YOU THAT HE WON’T LET YOU DO TO HIM (because it’s not about love or what he needs, it’s about degrading and demeaning you) If he wants booty, go to the toy store and get yourself a strap on. He will love it when you massage his prostate. He will cum more intensely and explosively

  3. leonabanks
    leonabanks says:

    How many people know what golden showers and brown showers is? So what, women are suppose to do all this too? You're suppose to degrade and make a pig out of yourself just to please some character who is perverted anyway, just to hold on to him thinking this is going to keep him true to you? Ladies, let me help wake you up. I have a co-worker who I got kinda close to. My son had to prevent her from suicide because she told me very graphically all the things she did with her partner and he still cheated on her. He was sneaking behind her back for over 18 months. Can you imagine how she feels after lowering herself like that? It was a very sad sight. I also have dealt with other women who went all out…..the man is no longer with them or they are doing cut throat on them constantly.

  4. leonabanks
    leonabanks says:

    Thesaurus for Analigus (aka – Rimming)
    The act of using one's tongue on the anal rim of another person in order to gain and/or give sexual pleasure.
    Circular motions in the clockwise directions are supposedly better in the Northern hemisphere, and anti-clockwise ones in the Southern.

    Do you know how many women have done this filthy thing and the man STILL cheats. I mean they have it now where they want you to lick out of their behind (Analigus). Are women suppose to do that too just to hold on to some piggish man? I mean where do women draw the line. Most women feel that most men cheat….with cheating comes STD's. Now just imagine a mouth full of chylmedia, trich, hpv or the monster. Now they want women to swallow. They got all of this filth from white women and now they are trying to degrade their own women. Ask your man after he ejaculates in your mouth, can you spit it back into his mouth. Most men I've asked this said "hell no, that's disgusting", so it’s not about showing love…it’s about degrading you. If he felt it was not degrading he wouldn’t have any problems putting it in his mouth and down his throat. So, if you have a cheating man, he's going to cheat regardless of what you do. If you have a faithful man, there's NOTHING you can do that will make him cheat. It's just that simple.

  5. Denise
    Denise says:

    It's soo refreshing to listen to an intelligent couple that keeps it 100

  6. Yvette Bryant
    Yvette Bryant says:

    She could just keep a couple of lollipops near by. She can also keep a candy jar near the bed. Yum!!!

  7. Suga Brown
    Suga Brown says:

    What you won't do for your man someone else is eagerly Ready and willing being that sex is throw around by loose women in the work place, school etc.. Keep it Open in the who don't care if ur in relationship or married. Honorable Undefiled Marriage bed which is wat God created for those of us in the covernant of marriage. Get as freaky and open minded as you both are comfortable with. I love y'all Ma'ats, keep it coming!!! You 2 are A Great blessing to us For sure 🙂

  8. kalkeikuu
    kalkeikuu says:

    I can relate to her (anonymous). I love the first part, but hate the taste too, so I don't allow my hubby to make me you know what. I can't help it, it really taste nasty. I love my husband for not forcing me to.

  9. shawny
    shawny says:

    Lmao….so semen has baking soda (sodium bicarbonate)….lmao! Oh gosh I'm over here dyin…I had to pause the video on that one!

  10. bbqem
    bbqem says:

    Nope. No swallowing. I think this is a much deeper issue than pleasing a person. It sounds like too much of an ego trip. There's a such thing as being humble and grateful for such attention in the first place. I'm just grateful for being ate out but why push it further? It's just being greedy which has nothing to do with love for her, but self love for himself.

    • aki
      aki says:

      agree 100% there.

    • leonabanks
      leonabanks says:

      Do you know how many women have done this filthy thing and the man STILL cheats. I mean they have it now where they want you to lick out of their behind (analingus). Are women suppose to do that too just to hold on to some piggish man? I mean where do women draw the line. Most women feel that most men cheat….with cheating comes STD's. Now just imagine a mouth full of chylmedia, trich, hpv or the monster. Now they want women to swallow. They got all of this filth from white women and now they are trying to degrade their own women. Ask your man after he ejaculates in your mouth, can he spit it back into his mouth. Most men I've asked this said "hell no, that's disgust", So, if you have a cheating man, he's going to cheat regardless of what you do. If you have a faithful man, there's nothing you can do that will make him cheat. It's just that simple.

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