Let Them Walk. Let It Go.

By Team BLAM

We are clear about our mission here at BLAM. We exist to promote, encourage, and elevate marriages & relationships in the African-American community in particular and the world in general. But, we are not here promoting any old kind of relationships. We are not here to say hang in there even when you are being disrespected, walked all over, and treated like trash. You have to utilize keen discernment to know the difference between  “appropriate going through” in your marriage and “this is crazy, get out, move on, this ain’t love and never was”. We believe in love. We believe in commitment. But, we DO NOT and never will believe in foolishness, emotional or physical abuse, or staying where you are not wanted. As a wise person once said the best thing to do when something is over is–LET GO.

3 replies
  1. BLB
    BLB says:

    Thank you family for always posting inspirational topics. I am (was) struggling with a separation after 24 years of marriage. It's been 8 months that we have been separated and I am often sad because I am in still in shock. But am I really? Heck now, not with the red flags that were there from the beginning. But after hearing this I am going to let it go and really let God do His will. It was for a purpose he was bad for me and our children. He was never going to change. I have to be thankful that God allowed me to get away from a serial adulterous man without contracting HIV/AIDS…

  2. Evelyn
    Evelyn says:

    I needed to hear this today. It's time for me to let go.

  3. Carol
    Carol says:

    Amen! Amen! Amen!!!!!!!

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