You’ve Got To Face Infidelity To Fight Infidelity
By Babara Longsworth
The pain that one feels when he/she was cheated on by his/her spouse is immeasurable. And infidelity is one of the reasons why many marriages end up in divorce. When your spouse has cheated on you, there are a lot of questions that would come to your mind such as were you at fault and why your spouse went astray. If you are the wife, you may be asking yourself, have you not loved him enough? Did you not satisfy him enough? And many other questions that are hard to fathom for a lot of individuals who have encountered this type of marital problem.
It is hard to accept the situation when you are betrayed by someone you have given your trust to. This betrayal can cause a lot of anxiety, as well as physical and emotional pain. How can you overcome this excruciating pain? This kind of pain can possibly cost you, your life’s happiness. This is especially more hurtful when you know that you have given your all in this relationship.
There are some individuals who are in denial when they learn about their spouse’s infidelities. They try to ignore the issue and pretend that everything is fine. Will this kind of reaction help to solve the issue? Will the problem go away, if you just brush it off? The answer is NO. It is a fact that knowing and accepting the truth will hurt a lot, but you have to understand that denying a fact will be more hurtful, in the long run, than accepting the truth.
You need to learn to accept the things that are happening to your marriage or relationship because this is the only way you can rise above all these obstacles. And in order to overcome the pain you may wish to seek professional help. A professional relationship coach may be able to help you and guide you on the right path in order to heal the pain that your spouse’s infidelity has caused. Talking and listening to someone who has experienced what you have experienced, and ended up successful in overcoming the hurt, can be beneficial to you and your family.
You have to remember, you cannot resolve a marital problem, such as infidelity, by ignoring the issue. You have to face the problem and deal with it. It’s helpful to remember that you’re not the only one who is experiencing this type of situation. It is a fact that a large percentage of marriages have dissolved because of infidelity. We cannot deny this and few can avoid this possibility. But there are some things you can do to overcome it and be healed so that you may live the life that you deserve. One filled with serenity, happiness and love.
you ain't never lied. living in ignorance is not bliss