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By Tina Hamilton The tales of love always tell you that your wedding day will be the best day of your life. There will be nothing but love surrounding you and memories to be made. However, most couples experience something a little different on their wedding day. The day is supposed to be able the […]


Post image for Relationship Rule To Break–”We Need To Resolve ALL Our Conflicts”

By Norma Stevens Couples often come to counseling with the expectation that they must resolve all of their issues in order to have a healthy, happy marriage. This is simply not true. In fact, marriage researcher, John Gottman and his associates, find that 69% of a couple’s marital conflicts CANNOT be resolved! That’s right! You won’t […]


Post image for Join Ayize & Aiyana Tonight On The J. Alan Show At 10pm EST To Discuss “You’re Turning Me Off In The Bedroom”

By Team BLAM Join us tonight for some hot uncensored conversation around sex & intimacy and how to tell your mate that they are….uh….TURNING YOU OFF. It’s never easy to navigate these kinds of situations but if you want to have a healthy and hot relationship you’ll make sure you’re honest. So, how do you […]


Post image for Talking About The Strengths & Challenges Of The Black Family. Join Ayize & Aiyana Today At 4pm EST On WOL 1450AM’s “Trending With EZ” Show

What comes to mind for you when you hear the words—Black Family? So much comes up for so many of us–both positive and negative. We know that the Black Family has it’s challenges in a multitude of ways. But, what we don’t often hear about are the strengths of the Black Family. Today, we will […]


Post image for It’s Shout Out Sunday! We’re shouting out Eboticon LLC!!! Won’t He Do It!

By Aiyana Ma’at I am so LOVING Eboticon LLC right now!  They have developed a new app that is culturally sensitive to persons of color and lets black folks say things the way we say things when using social media! Go DOWNLOAD THE APP today!!!! Check them out!   (From Left to Right) John, Tracey, […]


Post image for Happy 9th Wedding Anniversary to Coma & Daphney Weston!!!

By Team BLAM We are celebrating Coma & Daphney Weston today! It’s their Anniversary! Daphney shared some of her thoughts about their relationship and how she feels about being married to the one she loves.  Check out her interview below. Q: How did the two of you meet? We met when we where 16 and 14. […]


He Left Me…Had A Baby…Should I Take Him Back?

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Hey family, I met and started dating a guy in 2010 after moving to a new city. We were together for about 6 months and days before our “anniversary” he drops the bomb through text ( how appropriate)that he is moving back to Virginia because “some girl” was pregnant. Well that some girl turned out […]

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Good Sex….If It Ain’t Rough It Ain’t Right??

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Hello Ayize & Aiyana I’ve been following you all for the last 4 years and I really value the insight you all give and I just want to thank you for sharing so much over the years. It has really helped me and my wife in a lot of different ways. I have a question […]

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Great Sex – Six Tips To Help You Become A Better Lover

Thumbnail image for Great Sex – Six Tips To Help You Become A Better Lover July 22, 2014

By Kelly Price So you want to enjoy great sex and you want your partner to think of you as a great lover? Well the good news is that anyone can improve their sex life in the bedroom and the six tips enclosed will help you and your partner enjoys great sex. Let’s look at […]

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I’ve Discovered That I Have Super Powers…..And You Do Too!!

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What’s up Fam, Hope you’re doing well today.  I’m doing pretty good.  I had a moment this morning that made me realize something special about myself.  Truth be told, it actually put me in sync with something that I already knew….but really don’t always pay that much attention to. Check it…..I was laying in the […]

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