Are You Committed? 3 Steps To Achieving Your Personal And Relationship Goals
Commitment….Commitment……Commitment. That’s the mantra in our household these days. Actually, commitment and discipline <—-that’s a big one. Why are we focusing so heavily on commitment right now? Because you’re dead in the water before you even begin—when you don’t have commitment.
Simply put. Commitment is Crucial. Listen in as I explore why commitment is so integral to your success.
Step 1: TAKE OWNERSHIP
Stop blaming everything outside of you and start asking yourself what is it that you can do differently to improve your situation. Remember…wherever you go there you are. If you want things in your life to show up different….YOU’VE GOT TO SHOW UP DIFFERENT.
Step 2: SEEK REINFORCEMENT
Don’t be a Sunday Saint. You need reinforcement everyday of the week. In order to get reinforcement everyday you need to be held accountable. Share with a friend, neighbor, child, or parent your goals. The fact that others know will help to reinforce what’s required to achieve your goals. Seeking reinforcement 1 day out of the week ain’t gonna cut it.
Step 3: BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
Did you bring your A game or your F game this week. What did I avoid that I know I shouldn’t be avoiding? What did I do this week that was a true success? Don’t fool yourself and lie to yourself about your progress on your path. Look real hard at your self in the mirror. What you see is where you’ll gain your strength.
Again we ask the question Are you committed? If you’re not committed and you’re expecting change in your life….you’re pretty much acting like a dumb ass. Sorry…but it’s true. In order to see true change you’ve got to
1. Take Ownership
2. Seek Reinforcement
3. Be Honest With Yourself
If we were to add a #4 it would be TO TAKE ACTION! If you’re interested in elevating your commitment and taking action toward your goals CLICK HERE and let us help you go to the next level. Joining us can help you reach your personal goals, relational goals, or business goals. All we ask is that you commit.
#3 Being honest with yourself is the hardest for most people.
I know it is for me. Thank you for making me look at myself first.
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Aiyana you always keep it 100. Thank you
gotta have faith. thanks for this reminder.
I needed this message today.