You Are Built For The Next Level

There are times in life that we want to go to the next level but the way there seems more difficult than we think we can handle. It’s at these times that it’s most important to get grounded, center yourself and remember that you are built for the next level.

 

How Are You Moving Through Your Meantime?


Getting through the discomfort….the meantime is hard. Especially when there’s so much expectancy, possibility, and becoming awaiting you on the other side. “Becoming” is all about pushing past the discomfort…..the difficulty and making a decision that you’re determined to have your destiny. Be intentional yall!

Aiyana’s Message: You Cannot Change What You Will Not Confront

 

Aiyana Ma’at Speaks at Covenant Baptist United Church of Christ for Women’s Day 2014. Her message….You Cannot Change What You Will Not Confront. This message is so appropriate for this time of year as we go within…into the dark and beautiful stillness of Winter……into the dark and beautiful stillness of our minds and spirits to intuit and hear from God about what is important and essential for us as we travel our life’s journey. We understand that transformation is not easy…but it will be impossible to change if you do not confront what needs to be changed. You can do it. We can do it. #StopPlaying #StartPushing

Embrace Your Crazy!!!

By Ayize Ma’at

Live your best life. Live your life with purpose, meaning, and intention. It’s easy to just go along to get along. It’s easy to not stick out, fit in, blend in, and meet other people’s expectations. Yeah, it’s easy allright. It’s a slow easy death. Death not just to your dreams and desires but your soul. We’re all here to get a particular and very specific job done. God won’t whisper in your ear what he whispers in mine and she won’t whisper in mine what she whispers in the next person’s. Why? Because we’re ll unique and have unique gifts to give. Don’t live your life for somebody else….there life is already taken. DO YOU!!

It’s A New Day…Are You Where You’re Supposed To Be?

What’s that tingly sensation inside of you that won’t go away?  You can’t eat it away, drink it away, smoke it away, or bull sh%t it away.  It’s always there…around every corner, under every bed, in the corner of every attic.  Wherever you go…THERE IT IS.  It is the call of PURPOSE.  You can’t escape it because it’s that constant call to attention.  You feel good when you acknowledge and embrace it.  It provides direction, motivation, and encouragement.  Purpose is the steering wheel…allowing you to be in control of your life.

Fasting With Ayize & Aiyana: Day 2

To Join the “Fasting With Ayize & Aiyana” Facebook Group click the link below:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/562541133801580/

Come and join us….whether you fast for 1 hour, 1 day, 1 month or the remaining 40 days…your decision to sacrifice something is what’s most important.

For an INDIVIDUAL or COUPLES COACHING/COUNSELING SESSION click the link below
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/black-marriage-services-take-a-class/relationship-coaching-counseling/

VIDEO: Can’t NOBODY Give You The Gift Of Love Like You Can Give It To Yourself

By Team BLAM I decided long ago, never to walk in anyone’s shadows If I fail, if I succeed At least I live as I believe No matter what they take from me They can’t take away my dignity Because the greatest love of all Is happening to me I found the greatest love of all Inside of me The greatest love of all Is easy to achieve Learning to love yourself It is the greatest love of all I’m sure you recognize these words. These are the lyrics to the chorus of Whitney Houston’s “Greatest Love Of All”. These words capture the essence of the message we at BLAM, are always trying to convey to you…..ALL change, ALL transformation, ALL responsibility, ALL insight, ALL power, ALL motivation, ALL passion, ALL progress, ALL purpose, ALL love begins at home within your heart, mind, & soul. You hold the key that will ultimately unlock the door to the possibilities in your life and your love. If you don’t love yourself first, there is no room for you to recognize love when it comes from someone else. You have the power to create the life and the love you want to see. But, first you must say these 4 words:

IT ALL BEGINS WITH ME.

Stop Playing. Start Pushing.

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Listen In As BLAM’s Aiyana Ma’at Talks About How To Finally Love & Accept Yourself

By Aiyana Ma’at

This past weekend I had the awesome opportunity to join with women in the Washington, DC metro area and celebrated our Divine Feminine—Mind, Body, & Spirit. It was awesome! I spoke about how we as women can truly love and accept ourselves for all of who we are. I was blessed by all that was shared. We dealt with Abuse, Loneliness, Rejection, Low Self Esteem, and so much more. I never take it for granted when the Creator allows me to be in the presence of other like minded sisters reaching for their truest and most authentic selves.

Listen in for a clip with me talking about how to truly love and accept yourself once and for all…..

Stop Playing. Start Pushing.

Marriage Is For Grown Folks ***FREE AUDIO DOWNLOAD*** In Honor Of Black Marriage Day

What’s up Fam,

By now you’ve probably heard Aiyana’s intense expression of love for Ayize in the below clip:

Or you’ve heard Ayize’s unwavering affirmation of love for Aiyana in the below clip:

Now we’re giving you the ENTIRE first single (which includes all of the mushy stuff  above)………. for FREE : )  We thank you for taking the time to download and listen to our Marriage Is For Grown Folks audio program.  This is the first part of a 3 CD set.  This audio is for anyone who is married, thinking about marriage, wants to know what it takes to be married, or wants to feel good and inspired about their marriage or relationship. You’re gonna feel good after listening to this. You’re gonna want to re-commit to your love after listening to this. You’re gonna want to kiss and cuddle after listening to this. Remember…Marriage Is For Grown Folks yall….and in this audio we’re gonna take you on a journey so you can experience what being in love and being married is all about. Check out the entire audio program by clicking the (ADD TO CART) button below…and get ready to take you and your relationship to the next level.

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Listen ToThe Marriage Song! 1 More Day Until You Can Get The First Ever Relationship Inspiration Audio Program From The Ma’at’s FOR FREE!!!

What’s up Fam!!!

ONE MORE DAY. 24 MORE HOURS….UNTIL WE RELEASE THE FIRST EVER RELATIONSHIP INSPIRATION AUDIO PROGRAM FROM YOURS TRULY in honor of the 10 Year Anniversary of Black Marriage Day (March 17, 2013)!!! We are so excited!

 

As of tomorrow, March 17th, you will be able to instantly download the single (10 tracks, 40 minutes long…don’t sleep!) for free or purchase the CD online. The full 3-CD set will be released in April 2013. But, we have been releasing a clip each day leading up to Black Marriage Day. This is the 3rd and final clip. Listen to Clip 1 HERE. Listen to Clip 2 HERE.

 

This audio is for anyone who is married, thinking about marriage, wants to know what it takes to be married, or wants to feel good and inspired about their marriage or relationship. You’re gonna feel good after listening to this. You’re gonna want to re-commit to your love after listening to this. You’re gonna want to kiss and cuddle after listening to this. Remember…Marriage Is For Grown Folks yall….and in this audio we’re gonna take you on a journey so you can experience what being in love and being married is all about. Check out the audio clip below…and see why we say “You Should Never Ever Have To Question The Love Of Your Spouse!”

Don’t forget to come back tomorrow to download the entire 10 track 40 minute single!! We know you will love it. Black Love Rocks!

 

“Marriage Is For Grown Folks” is an audio program that sheds light on many of the common areas that couples deal with in marriage. Everything from parenting, communication, and managing conflict to sex, quality time, and dealing with marital finances is explored through the eyes of one of the most transparent marriages in America.

Ayize and Aiyana Ma’at combine personal experiences from their own marriage along with tips, humor, and funky beats in their signature down to earth and “keep it real” style. This is Relationship Motivation at it’s best.

Ayize & Aiyana Ma’at are the Co-Founders of the personal development and relationship education firm B Intentional,LLC. They run a private couples & family counseling practice and impact more than 50,000 people on the world wide web every month through their popular Video Advice Column “Ask The Ma’at’s” and cutting edge website BlackLoveAndMarriage.com. Ayize & Aiyana Ma’at have been featured on and in The Oprah Winfrey Network, Dr. Drew’s Life Changers Show, The Michael Baisden Show, The Final Call, Empower Magazine, Roland Martin’s Washington Watch, The Matt Mcgill Show, The Jennifer Keitt Show, & Essence Magazine just to name a few..