By Lana Moline There are a few things in my life that keep me on my knees. I’ve accepted the fact that I just don’t have the power to fix it or even navigate through it without help for that matter. Those areas are my “prayer things.” Prayer things are matters in life that we […]
By Robert Taibbi, LCSW Jake and Molly were off and running within five minutes—something small—the laundry, dirty dishes in the sink, maybe something about a diaper—but somehow it turned into World War III—who did what, who always did, whose mother was right. It was ugly. Jake wound up sleeping on the couch; Molly locked herself in the […]
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By Aiyana Ma’at One of the best things I’ve learned to do to get my feelings out (especially when I’m feeling a whole lot) when I’m upset with Ayize is this: Write A Love Letter. It may seem counterintuitive. I mean when you’re mad or disappointed who feels like writing a Love Letter, right? I […]
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By Team BLAM How long are you gonna stew? How long are you going to sit in this place of confusion and refuse to move out of this place that you know isn’t serving you? It isn’t serving you as an individual. It isn’t serving your growth. It’s not serving your insight. It ain’t serving […]
There are some folks who are in relationships that they have no business being in. What began as a belief in the possibility of “Happily Ever After”, has unfortunately mutated into an existence of misery, despair, and hopelessness. We’re here to tell you that just because your situation feels hopeless….YOU ARE NOT HELPLESS. In this […]
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By Team BLAM Communicating effectively takes practice and a whole lot of effort. Without communication, it is nearly impossible to resolve conflicts or grow your relationship. Whether you are in a troubled marriage, simply seeing the value of a “tune-up”, or seeking marriage help, here are some useful tips for communicating effectively within a marriage. […]
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By Irina Tveritina No one likes for their faults to be displayed or called out in public. Your spouse is no different. Criticizing your spouse in public is a NO NO. The reality is that there is not anything that justifies criticizing your partner in public. If a deed seems serious enough to need attention […]
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There are a lot of things that can contribute to the success and downfall of your relationship. In this video we discuss four warning signs that if go unchecked can cripple a relationships progress and possibly lead to it’s end. Listen closely and learn what you want to avoid so that you can live happily […]
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By Ruth Purple It’s normal to have “ups and downs” in a romantic affair. But when the “down” part seizes most of your togetherness, then you have to assess: Is your relationship in trouble? One of the basic keys on how to save a relationship is being aware of it signs. Here are the signs […]
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By Debbie Manigat Yea! The primary’s are over and election season is finally winding down. I can’t wait until November so I can vote and not have to endure cheesy political ads or another silent home visit with my family. I say silent because when it comes to politics, we are a house divided. My […]
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Tried This. Tried That. Tried Prayer?
/in Conflict Management, Inspiration, Living With Intention/byBy Lana Moline There are a few things in my life that keep me on my knees. I’ve accepted the fact that I just don’t have the power to fix it or even navigate through it without help for that matter. Those areas are my “prayer things.” Prayer things are matters in life that we […]
4 Steps To Making Up When You Mess Up
/in Conflict Management/byBy Robert Taibbi, LCSW Jake and Molly were off and running within five minutes—something small—the laundry, dirty dishes in the sink, maybe something about a diaper—but somehow it turned into World War III—who did what, who always did, whose mother was right. It was ugly. Jake wound up sleeping on the couch; Molly locked herself in the […]
Need To Get Some Negative Feelings Out? Write A Love Letter.
/in Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Aiyana Ma’at One of the best things I’ve learned to do to get my feelings out (especially when I’m feeling a whole lot) when I’m upset with Ayize is this: Write A Love Letter. It may seem counterintuitive. I mean when you’re mad or disappointed who feels like writing a Love Letter, right? I […]
Stop Stewing In Relationship Resentment
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Team BLAM How long are you gonna stew? How long are you going to sit in this place of confusion and refuse to move out of this place that you know isn’t serving you? It isn’t serving you as an individual. It isn’t serving your growth. It’s not serving your insight. It ain’t serving […]
Fed Up In Your Relationship? When Is Enough…ENOUGH?
/in Conflict Management/byThere are some folks who are in relationships that they have no business being in. What began as a belief in the possibility of “Happily Ever After”, has unfortunately mutated into an existence of misery, despair, and hopelessness. We’re here to tell you that just because your situation feels hopeless….YOU ARE NOT HELPLESS. In this […]
1O MUST HAVE Tips For Talking (And Actually Getting Somewhere) In Your Marriage
/in Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Team BLAM Communicating effectively takes practice and a whole lot of effort. Without communication, it is nearly impossible to resolve conflicts or grow your relationship. Whether you are in a troubled marriage, simply seeing the value of a “tune-up”, or seeking marriage help, here are some useful tips for communicating effectively within a marriage. […]
Who Are You Talking To Like That? STOP Criticizing Your Spouse.
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Irina Tveritina No one likes for their faults to be displayed or called out in public. Your spouse is no different. Criticizing your spouse in public is a NO NO. The reality is that there is not anything that justifies criticizing your partner in public. If a deed seems serious enough to need attention […]
4 Danger Signs That Will Derail Your Relationship
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byThere are a lot of things that can contribute to the success and downfall of your relationship. In this video we discuss four warning signs that if go unchecked can cripple a relationships progress and possibly lead to it’s end. Listen closely and learn what you want to avoid so that you can live happily […]
6 Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble
/in Conflict Management/byBy Ruth Purple It’s normal to have “ups and downs” in a romantic affair. But when the “down” part seizes most of your togetherness, then you have to assess: Is your relationship in trouble? One of the basic keys on how to save a relationship is being aware of it signs. Here are the signs […]
What Do You Do When Your House Is Divided Politically?
/in Conflict Management/byBy Debbie Manigat Yea! The primary’s are over and election season is finally winding down. I can’t wait until November so I can vote and not have to endure cheesy political ads or another silent home visit with my family. I say silent because when it comes to politics, we are a house divided. My […]