Guess What? It Ain’t All About You.

By Ayize Ma’at

Today I want to talk to you for a minute about 2 things I see happening all of the time in my practice working with couples. We all do these two things on some level–although some of us more than others.

#1 We Personalize — i.e., we make things about us that have absolutely nothing to do with us

#2 We Project–i.e., we take our past experiences, assumptions, and attitudes and super-impose them on our present day lives and relationships.

Listen in while I speak on it.  Click HERE to learn more about our coaching/counseling services and how we can help you get beyond personalization and projection in your relationship and life.

Remember, yall It’s Not Always About You!

6 replies
  1. ncmomtofive
    ncmomtofive says:

    thank you so much for such wise words! I really need to hear this!

  2. liluho
    liluho says:

    needed to hear this thanks

  3. Phoenix Rose
    Phoenix Rose says:

    Love this video! It's funny that I've seen this, when I've been thru an experience with him, where it reminded me of my ex, and I reacted and he said, I'm not him, don't compare us. Once he said that, I had to take a step back and realize that I was, and now it's time to stop the madness!

  4. Lanette Duncan
    Lanette Duncan says:

    Very wise information. thank you….

  5. A. Louis
    A. Louis says:

    My Past Relationship didn’t work because this was the message I was trying to convey to the other party. However, in this mundane world one will face life challenges which will force them to realize that no man is an island (Cannot make it in this world alone)…Thank you 

  6. intjurban
    intjurban says:

    Such wisdom. In relationships it is best to learn to listen 1st versus wanting to be understood 1st.

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