I Don't Want My Husband To Think I'm A Freak…

VIDEO: This wife wants to try sex that she says would be “considered outside of the norm” with her husband. However, she doesn’t know how to go about introducing the idea to him. Should some things just be left alone or is this an opportunity for this couple to go to the next level?

Question: Why do you think some people are afraid to express their sexual desires in their relationships? Leave a comment. We want to know what you think.

6 replies
  1. Leslie Wright
    Leslie Wright says:

    I totally concur with you Kimberly!

  2. Kymberly
    Kymberly says:

    There is a playful saying, that a man wants a lady in the street and freak in the bed. I think that there is some truth into that. So, be free with your mate.

  3. Harriet
    Harriet says:

    Amen! That is so true! I think in Christian households, we have to be careful about not demonizing sex or making it out to be something evil, when it was created to be enjoyed within a marital union.

    And we have to prevent double standards as well. For example, my older brother and I were raised with Christian values (hit and miss on church, but saved nonetheless LOL). When my brother left for college, he was given a box of condoms. “Make sure you put the umbrella on before you get wet, boy.” ROFL When I left for college, I got the whole “stay pure until you get married…you don’t want to be damaged goods.”

    WTFraggle rock?!? LOL I can laugh about it today, but back then, it was a source of frustration. I was more afraid of having sex than I was of displeasing God, and that’s so backwards.

    Anyway, I’ve rambled long enough. Thanks for being a light to marriages of every hue! I look forward to reading and watching more from y’all!
    .-= Harriet´s last blog ..Take Off The Mask! =-.

  4. Ayize Ma'at
    Ayize Ma'at says:

    Thank you for your insight and contribution to our site. It’s unfortunate that “we” make marriage….which is supposed to be a rewarding experience …..an unreasonably restrictive experience. And it’s all because we got “baggage” that we are afraid to unpack. Who better to be free with than your spouse.

  5. Harriet
    Harriet says:

    Wow…a couple of weeks ago I wrote an article about this topic that will post to BMWK soon. At any rate, in my experience, some people are bold and straightforward when it comes to everything in their relationship…BUT sex. At least I was. Just as shy, demure and boring as you can imagine. I think it has a great deal to do with upbringing as well as taught attitudes about sex.
    .-= Harriet´s last blog ..Take Off The Mask! =-.

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