Question: My boyfriend and I are quite green in our relationship. We’ve been together for almost two months. So we are still getting to know quite a bit about each other. I am so happy being with him he makes me laugh and keeps me smiling…:-( We both are waiting until marriage, this is his first REAL serious relationship and this is my second. ( I was engaged for two years and dated that person two years prior to engagement.) So alot is new to him..and me too… I have problems communicating those things at times because I don’t want to make him feel weird or bad about my needs…..But I’m working on it…Unfortunately I only see him on the weekends but when I do see him we try to communicate as much as possible….I have this thing, when we go out of town on trips, I initiate the question game in which we can ask each other any question and who ever get’s the question must answer it. So one question I asked him was, “What’s your biggest Fear”…He replied in saying that he wouldn’t call it a fear, just a serious concern… He said that he wants to be married and have kids. But right now without all of that and if he never had those things,he is happy by himself… He doesn’t have to be in crowds of people and he likes his space… He’s not a touchy touchy like person… That’s makes me concerned… I am the opposite… I like to hug, I like to be around people SOMETIMES… But my concern is, is his “being happy by himself” a good/healthy thing or bad thing if we are both dating each other for a lifetime partner… Ifeel like right now because he is happy by himself we don’t spend as much time together because he is used to being single and is holding on to that single mode still…. Help me out family…Am I overeacting?
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