5 Lessons I’ve Learned From Being DUMPED.
By Mark Jordan
Like most men, I’ve been dumped. I’ll even admit I’ve been dumped more than once too! It was never easy and I certainly didn’t like it, but I will say that I have matured from the experience and there are a few things I have learned from the women who’ve dumped me. Below are some of the things I have learned.
Things I’ve Learned from Women Who’ve Dumped Me #1
You have got to give a woman her personal space. You do not want to invade a woman’s life so much that you are not giving her personal space. Trust is one of the key components in a good relationship and it is what women want. Yes, women like to cuddle, hold hands and hug and they may seem to always be around, but they need personal space also. If you have ever been cheated on you probably feel you need to know at all times where your girlfriend is and who she is with. But if you get into her personal space too much she is going to get the impression that you don’t trust her much. You may end up breaking up because of this.
Things I’ve Learned from Women Who’ve Dumped Me #2
It takes two people to make a relationship. Both people in the relationship contribute problems and happiness to the relationship. You can blame the other person all that you want and it is hard not too if you are suffering pain from a breakup. But the breakup was partially caused by you as one-half of the couple. Figure out what went wrong so that the next time you have a relationship it doesn’t happen again.
Things I’ve Learned from Women Who’ve Dumped Me #3
Not all relationships are meant to be. You may have been planning a future with your girlfriend in the way of a wedding, kids, vacations and more and then suddenly she broke all of it off. You have to learn that not all relationships were meant to be and it is a blessing that it was ended before you got in too deep and then found out too late that you weren’t in a good relationship.
Things I’ve Learned from Women Who’ve Dumped Me #4
You’ll get stronger as time goes by. The philosopher Nietzsche was the one who said whatever doesn’t kill me will make me stronger. That same thing will happen to you when dealing with a breakup from your girlfriend. The pain will be intense at first but will lessen with time. Usually you will emerge a stronger person with more maturity.
Things I’ve Learned from Women Who’ve Dumped Me #5
It is you who has to make good things happen. While you can’t control every little thing that happens to you, you can usually control how you react to those things. It is you, and not someone else, who has to control your future and be positive about it. You have to pick yourself up and go back out to meet new and exciting women. You can most likely another girlfriend pretty easily if you remain positive.
Try to have some fun in your life and follow some of the advice I’ve shared in this article on things I’ve learned from women who’ve dumped me and you will find that you are a stronger man now than you were before you were dumped.
Mark D. Jordan is a writer and researcher from Pennsylvania. Much more information about being dumped and getting an ex back can be read at Getting Girlfriend Back. Learning how to survive breakups is at Survive Breakups
men really have a hard time with break ups. I'm single again and my ex is all singing the blues like he has lost his lifes purpose. it wasn't meant to be more than it was. we knew it wasn't a good fit from the begin. we attempted to do it with differences (not reconcile, I would not reconcile). He couldn't catch on how to relate with me. men act like a break up has something to do with their mojo. I'm glad to know that you overcome the loose, so i'll be patient for a few days while he weeps and wails about this. and I pray that he gets a new woman soon cause he needs one. soon! great job in overcoming. economize your process next time you get dumped so that the sting won't stang so long… :^)
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