[Ask The Ma’at’s] How Do I Get This Man Out Of My House?
A viewer wrote in and asked us a very simple question: How do I get this man out of my house….I’ve been trying for years? We chuckled at the simplicity of the question and offered some suggestions to help him “get a hint”. We also challenge the fact that if something has been going on for soooo long then you may be participating in the “mess” and getting a payoff from it. Check out the video and let us know what you think.
It amazes me how often we participate in things that we SAY we don't want. Then we're surprised when we don't have positive things happening in our lives. I'd say this problem exists in many of us.
Here's a fixer: Act like you've been told you only have 2 years to live. Whatever you want to happen, you have to "birth" into existence. Evaluate your relationships and where they will take you in the time you have left. In the "down time" you have (after you've put in the hard work), watch your life change to become what you want it to be!
Wow!!!!! I vote she call up her cousins LOL
Aiyana, you are so right. Many Women are int his predicament. They have a man that's not contributing positively to the relationship except for an occasional romp between the sheets; then everything is fine for a few days. She needs to tell him she wants him out then stick to that, letting him know in no uncertain terms that it is over.
Yeah, she doesn't want him gone or he'd be gone!
OK. I love ya'll! so funny and down to earth (great chemistry) with great advice.