Are Pics Of Past Girlfriends A Problem?
VIDEO: Trust is an essential part of a relationship. In order to establish and maintain a healthy relationship you’ve got to know when to responsibly lower and lift your guards. Occasionally, because trust has been broken in our relationships we recondition ourselves to look for and expect deceit to be forever present. It’s in those times where we’ve discovered another opportunity to distrust that we are confronted with the challenge of bailing out or remaining invested in the relationship. In time when your trust is tested what do you do? Do you confront your partner or silently build up a wall of resentment?
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another great one guys
Hmm, how about if a person is involved with a guy and he has pics of his bestfriends which are girls? (He is in the performing arts so i understand) Should i be insecure about it? Should i tell him to take it down? or is it no big deal?
Well….I feel that she didn't deserve to find another woman's pic in his email……or where ever she found it….Snooping may be bad but she doesn't deserve to be hurt again…that is ground crushing to even have to have those feelings…in which I understand her because I once was in a relationship where it was hard to gain trust after I found something…and then I found more stuff…I didn't deserve that..I lingered on for a while and he had a child while he was still with me…after that I left…….so I OTOH: understand this lady but it is up to her whether she wants to continue being in this relationship. She has to ask herself a few questions and then take a moment to think and then act on what is best…finding things such as pictures…makes you wonder…Hmmm…why does he have a picture of another woman anyway..I'm sorry but when my husband and I got together…we discarded all that stuff……and decided that its "ME & YOU BAE" and THE KIDS…..
*I'm keeping it real*
There are some people out here that believe everybody cheats. I don't get down with that philosophy. I feel like you'll always be anticipating the next "thing" unless you get more secure with who you are as a person.
Emails, Cell phones, FB….are all means for cheating to occur. The most important thing is to focus on strengthening your relationship so that there will be no need to check his stuff.
It's very difficult to restore trust after it has been broken. However if you are looking for trust you've got to give trust. Snooping is not the way to do it.