By Ericka So’uter Whoever wrote the wedding vows got it all wrong. It should be love, honor, and eye roll. If you’ve been married more than a month, you know what I’m talking about. It’s those little moments when he actually thinks he’s being smart, sincere, witty, or helpful, but in reality it’s just downright annoying. […]
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By Robert Gordon “How can he not know how horribly inappropriate it was to give me a blender for my birthday?” “Does she not get that I can’t just spill my guts on demand? Why is she all up in my face with “What’s wrong? Talk to me!” “Do I have to write him a (expletive deleted) […]
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By Conrad Jones Have you ever thought about why is it so important to have an open and comfortable communication environment in your relationships? What’s the single biggest benefit of being able to openly share your thoughts, feelings, goals, & ideas with someone you care about without having them criticize, condemn or make you feel […]
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By Team BLAM Do you have a problem with putting first things first? Do you have the tendency to get your priorities all screwed up and focus on the wrong things at the wrong time? Who besides you is impacted in that process? Who gets hurt in that process? What gets neglected in that process? […]
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By Your Tango.com So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you? Here’s an interesting question: how do you get a man who won’t even ask for directions after driving in circles for two hours to go out and hire a stranger, then tell that person his deepest, […]
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VIDEO: There is a reason for every relationship we have in our lives. We believe the reason for every relationship is to somehow and some way help you GROW!!!! Sometimes these relationships are painful and sometimes these relationships are pleasant…..either way there is value. Take the value, the lessons learned in your relationship, and show […]
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By Aiyana Ma’at One of the best things I’ve learned to do to get my feelings out (especially when I’m feeling a whole lot) when I’m upset with Ayize is this: Write A Love Letter. It may seem counterintuitive. I mean when you’re mad or disappointed who feels like writing a Love Letter, right? I […]
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By Marie Hartwell-Walker Ed.D Most people know that one of the keys to success in relationships is good listening. Experts tell us to use “active” listening, “I messages,” and open-ended questions. Articles urge us to stop talking when someone speaks, to use our body language effectively to encourage the other guy, and to work to […]
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By Team BLAM How long are you gonna stew? How long are you going to sit in this place of confusion and refuse to move out of this place that you know isn’t serving you? It isn’t serving you as an individual. It isn’t serving your growth. It’s not serving your insight. It ain’t serving […]
By Team BLAM Where is the safe space in your relationship? Do you have rituals that you and and your spouse engage in TOGETHER that shifts your mental and emotional atmosphere in such a way that you to feel secure in the midst of chaos. Is there some place in your relationship where you can […]
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10 Things A Husband Should Never Say To His Wife
/in Communication/byBy Ericka So’uter Whoever wrote the wedding vows got it all wrong. It should be love, honor, and eye roll. If you’ve been married more than a month, you know what I’m talking about. It’s those little moments when he actually thinks he’s being smart, sincere, witty, or helpful, but in reality it’s just downright annoying. […]
Relationship Rules To Break: I Shouldn’t Have To Ask For The Things That Make Me Feel Loved
/in Communication/byBy Robert Gordon “How can he not know how horribly inappropriate it was to give me a blender for my birthday?” “Does she not get that I can’t just spill my guts on demand? Why is she all up in my face with “What’s wrong? Talk to me!” “Do I have to write him a (expletive deleted) […]
Real Relationship “Must Have”: Keep The Lines Of Communication OPEN…Forreal.
/in Communication/byBy Conrad Jones Have you ever thought about why is it so important to have an open and comfortable communication environment in your relationships? What’s the single biggest benefit of being able to openly share your thoughts, feelings, goals, & ideas with someone you care about without having them criticize, condemn or make you feel […]
Are You Always Turned On And Need To Know When To Turn It Off?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Team BLAM Do you have a problem with putting first things first? Do you have the tendency to get your priorities all screwed up and focus on the wrong things at the wrong time? Who besides you is impacted in that process? Who gets hurt in that process? What gets neglected in that process? […]
How To Persuade Your Man To Give Couples Coaching/Counseling A Real Try
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My Man’s The Best There Ever Was But I’m Leaving
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Love & Marriage, Quality Time/byVIDEO: There is a reason for every relationship we have in our lives. We believe the reason for every relationship is to somehow and some way help you GROW!!!! Sometimes these relationships are painful and sometimes these relationships are pleasant…..either way there is value. Take the value, the lessons learned in your relationship, and show […]
Need To Get Some Negative Feelings Out? Write A Love Letter.
/in Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Aiyana Ma’at One of the best things I’ve learned to do to get my feelings out (especially when I’m feeling a whole lot) when I’m upset with Ayize is this: Write A Love Letter. It may seem counterintuitive. I mean when you’re mad or disappointed who feels like writing a Love Letter, right? I […]
8 Things That Lousy Listeners Do
/in Communication/byBy Marie Hartwell-Walker Ed.D Most people know that one of the keys to success in relationships is good listening. Experts tell us to use “active” listening, “I messages,” and open-ended questions. Articles urge us to stop talking when someone speaks, to use our body language effectively to encourage the other guy, and to work to […]
Stop Stewing In Relationship Resentment
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Team BLAM How long are you gonna stew? How long are you going to sit in this place of confusion and refuse to move out of this place that you know isn’t serving you? It isn’t serving you as an individual. It isn’t serving your growth. It’s not serving your insight. It ain’t serving […]
Where Is The “Safe Space” In Your Relationship?
/in Becoming One, Communication/byBy Team BLAM Where is the safe space in your relationship? Do you have rituals that you and and your spouse engage in TOGETHER that shifts your mental and emotional atmosphere in such a way that you to feel secure in the midst of chaos. Is there some place in your relationship where you can […]