Innocent Mistakes Husbands Make That Piss Wives Off

By Ruth Purple

“She is driving me crazy, I’m dying here! What the heck did I do to you now?!” Sound familiar? What you did may be unintentional, so stop pulling at what’s left of your hair.


And for whatever its worth, you are not alone in this dilemma. The majority of husbands out there complain that they just don’t get their wives alot of the time. I sympathize with you guys, so to shed some light and prevent further misunderstandings in your relationship and confusion on your part, here are the innocent mistakes that men usually make that upset the women.


Being a slob, so please, take care of your appearance. Women in general, take the extra mile to look good for you, the least you can do is to try to put on some good clean pair of pants and we all know that ironing your shirt will not kill you, so take that effort. Yes, your woman will love you no matter what but taking that initiative to look good for her will cause the good mood to last.

Another innocent mistake that you can make to change the mood of your honey bunch from heavenly to scary is to become a preacher when she pours out her problems or dilemma. Most women are not looking for solutions when they divulge their problems, they just want someone to listen and sympathize with them. I know that you mean well and that you are just overwhelmed with concern for her but giving her step by step directions on what she needs to do and how she can solve her problems will do nothing but aggravate her. So when she starts spilling her guts about her predicaments, it’s best to say “that really sucks, honey. I’ m sorry you feel that way, I hope everything will be alright soon.”

Another innocent mistake that men make are to trivialize the bonding moments, bonding moments can be snuggling on the couch watching television or having dinner together in a fancy restaurant or at home. What I mean when I say trivializing these moments is going to sleep during your snuggling time or finishing your meal like you’re a famished person in a rush to go…nowhere. Doing those innocent mistakes will make your woman feel that you don’t want to take the time to spend those “little moments” that makes your relationship different and special.


And the worst innocent mistake that you can make is to be clueless and not get the hint when she is in the mood for love. In case you don’t know here are the hints your wife drops when she wants some hot steaming sex tonight- she gives you more soft touches, gives you naughty glances, she wears skimpy and sexy lingerie instead of her usual pj’s, or she talks about the “Brazilian shave” she got this afternoon.


These innocent mistakes are the things that annoy women and though these may not really hurt they don’t help either. If you want to make her feel good  now you know what to do.



Ruth Purple is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships. Get A Copy of her sensational ebook on Winning Over Infidelity. Experience a Happier Love Life. You can read more from Ruth at

5 replies
  1. mrssays
    mrssays says:

    Don't you think that is tricky? Expecting men to be mind readers is kind of a set up isn't it? Why not tell him "When I ________ then I'm in the mood" and you'll both be happy. How is he supposed to know if we just get annoyed and never tell break it down for him?
    My recent post How to Inspire Your Husband: 20 Ways

    • Chris
      Chris says:

      Good Point. Knowledge and Open communication is POWER.

    • Me03
      Me03 says:

      As a woman I can honestly say its hard to talk about those things with ourselves let alone other human beings lol! I was raised to believe a lady doesn't speak of such things and hence have much difficulty expressing when in need.

      Fellas take it easy on your women…if she isn't whispering sexy trash talk in your ear it doesn't mean she isn't interested, it can really mean she is shy to say so. 😉

  2. Vicky
    Vicky says:

    I think I got a preacher in my house.

  3. Narun
    Narun says:

    this was excellent! and there's NO EXCUSE for them to happen ever again LOL

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