Ok, I am getting married on March 12th . My fiancé is a widower and I am a divorcee. My dilemma is that I am a plus size bride having a very casual wedding and I have a simple white floor length dress that pretty much resembles a giant white curtain… Haha. It’s really not that flattering, but I was ok with wearing it long enough to get married & changing RIGHT after our I dos. I was then going to wear something more comfy and less white. Yesterday, I found the cutest black tea length dress that I feel very pretty & sexy in…and not at all nauseated when I think of being in front of 100 people in, as opposed to the white one. My fiancée thinks I should just wear the white one (which he has not seen me in). He was with me when I tried on & bought the black one & thought it looked very good. Is wearing a black dress THAT bad for your second wedding?
This question came from a bride to be who wrote in to the folks over at WeddingWire.com. And, we think it’s a very interesting question indeed. Are there rules for what you should or should not wear for second weddings? Should this bride do what makes her happy or pay attention to the message it may send and the impressions of others? Weigh in ya’ll! We want to know what you think.