Ladies…..Don’t Be Thirsty

Viewer Question:  I’m in love with an old class mate to whom I have a long intimate history with. He recently got out a relationship that ended badly and according to him has scarred him, enough that he may never want to get married . That relationship along with others has caused trust issues for him.  However over the last 7 months or so we have spent darn near every day together and occasionally we are intimate. My feelings are all in, and now even though I know he doesn’t want a relationship right now, I almost feel like I’m cheating when I go out with other men. Should I just appreciate my friendship with him and abandon my true feelings for him or should I express myself and go for and risk potential awkwardness ? BLAM Fam let us know your thoughts.


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3 replies
  1. Lynn
    Lynn says:

    That was excellent. You guys are so cute and funny.

  2. Tessa
    Tessa says:

    This was right on target. I was in a similar situation and it ended poorly. The man ended up being in a relationship with another woman who he worked with. I was crushed because I thought he was my love.

  3. Carmen
    Carmen says:

    Y'all are the LOL Keep on keeping it real and honest.

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