By Ayize Ma’at
Ladies and Gentelmen,
You are picking poisonous relationships because you are in pain.
I can hear you now…”What you tryin’ to say… It’s my fault that I’m getting fucked over by my man or woman?”. No. I am not saying it’s your fault, however what I am saying is that we get caught up in patterns of habitual behaviors or pathologies based on past experiences that have an impact on who we select as partners and behaviors we allow in our relationships. Oftentimes because we’ve experienced pain, we heavily identify with the pain as a coping mechanism to maintain some sense of “sanity”. Unfortunately, because we’ve become so immersed IN and enmeshed WITH the pain….that’s all we know and we choose people who reflect back to us what we’ve grown to know and be comfortable with.
Stop Playing. Start Pushing.
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