VIDEO: There are a lot of things that can contribute to the success and downfall of your relationship. One of the books that we’ve been re-reading lately is Fighting for Your Marriage by Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, and Susan L. Blumberg. They talk about 4 destructive patterns that can occur in relationships. Today, we will discuss those four warning signs that if go unchecked can cripple a relationships’ progress and possibly lead to it’s end. Listen closely and learn what you want to avoid so that you can live happily ever after. Remember, we have to B Intentional about creating the relationships that we want to see in our lives.

B Intentional Family, Are there any other danger signs you can think of for us all to be mindful of? Share your wisdom. We all want to know because we all want to grow….most days! Lol!

5 replies
  1. Jamila
    Jamila says:

    I am now seeing the relationship light… I always ask if I have a hand in what I am doing… And when I ask… it take three or four discussions out to the answer…. It's like alright

  2. Harriet
    Harriet says:

    Wow…I really feel like you all were talking directly about my marriage. I'm not guiltless: invalidation is definitely something that I did. I was "getting my weight up" in emotional disconnection and pushing him off to prevent myself from getting hurt.

  3. Mrs. Jackson
    Mrs. Jackson says:

    Talking to your wife's family about problems your having secretly is NOT COOL. In case you can't tell I'm dealing with this right now…and I'm about to lose it!!!! :-/

  4. Shawn
    Shawn says:

    This is so true. Good advice!

  5. Shawn
    Shawn says:

    Complaining! Complaining! Complaining! Nobody want s to live with someone who can only see the worst in them. I'm a witness.

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