So you’re thinking about going into business with your spouse….do you really know what you’re in for? Really, do you? Here’s a glimpse into some of the drama and the process that we go through prior to simply sitting down and recording a 5 minute video. Sometimes you feel like you’re pulling teeth. Sometimes you […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2013-01-16 11:30:222019-01-18 14:52:23Where The Hell Is My Wife?
By Team BLAM First let us explain what we mean by emotional terrorism. When you have a relationship, at home or at work, with a person who is constantly humiliating you, harassing you, pressuring on you, taking pleasure in your pain, saying negative things about you or making you feel worthless, then you are caught […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2013-01-11 08:00:152019-01-18 14:52:23Is Your Husband An Emotional Terrorist?
At one point or another we all experience some type of bull shit in our relationship. You know…times when you want to throw up your hands and say “what the hell is going on?” You could be butting heads over where you live, how many children, how you’re being talked to, sexual inadequacies, drug addiction, […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2013-01-01 07:00:042019-01-18 14:52:23Keep Climbing Your Mountain No Matter How Hard It Gets
By Dr. Eileen Borris You’ve met the person who makes you feel so special. It feels wonderful to be in love and now you are married hoping that this relationship will last your life time. Years have gone by and marriage has been good to you – so you thought. You begin to notice some […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2012-12-28 12:27:242019-01-18 14:52:23So, You’ve Been Betrayed…Seven Steps To Survive It
By Mark Webb Do You Have Trouble Keeping Your Mouth Shut? Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret. If you answered yes to the title question I am sure you have realized the truth in this quote by Ambrose Bierce. In order to gain control over […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2012-12-26 14:00:182019-01-18 14:52:24Do You Have Trouble Keeping Your Mouth Shut?
By Marc Sadoff The need to defend oneself is a powerful reflex. So powerful that it makes people say things that only gets them into more trouble. Showing that you see how you may be responsible for causing your partner’s hurt or anger and that you care about it enough to do something goes against […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2012-12-22 09:15:222019-01-18 14:52:24Marriage Wisdom: The BEST Reaction To An Angry Spouse? Acknowledge Their Feelings BEFORE Expressing Your Point Of View
By Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S. “Stress impacts our love relationships more than we are aware of or acknowledge,” according to Judy Ford, a licensed clinical social worker and author of Every Day Love: The Delicate Art of Caring for Each Other. Part of the problem is that stress is entrenched in our everyday. “Stress has become such a […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2012-12-19 09:00:432019-01-18 14:52:24Working Through Stress As A Couple
VIDEO: I met my husband online. I was living in the UK at the time and he was in the USA, where he was born and raised. He wanted to be the one to pay for mine and my daughter’s plane tickets, while I sold my furniture and books, so that I could sort out the other […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2012-12-05 09:00:372019-01-18 14:52:24I Ain’t Feelin’ My Husband BECAUSE He Has NO HUSTLE!!!!
By Anna Kleimer Because we see truth through the filter of our beliefs, each of us sees the truth differently and those differences can lead to misunderstandings or worse, lead us to live unfulfilled lives. There are three crucial questions to ask before speaking the truth. These questions will make your life and the lives […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2012-11-24 10:30:462019-01-18 14:52:24Your Method Is Messing Up Your Marriage. When Telling The Truth Doesn’t Work.
VIDEO: At some point in our relationship we are all confronted with challenges and some situations are more serious than others. In this video we touch on a really serious topic based on a question that came in where a girlfriend cut her boyfriend because he put his hands on her. She feels like everyone […]
http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png00http://www.blackloveandmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/logo.png2012-11-21 11:08:042019-01-18 14:52:24I Think My Relationship Can Survive A Fist Fight
Where The Hell Is My Wife?
/in Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/bySo you’re thinking about going into business with your spouse….do you really know what you’re in for? Really, do you? Here’s a glimpse into some of the drama and the process that we go through prior to simply sitting down and recording a 5 minute video. Sometimes you feel like you’re pulling teeth. Sometimes you […]
Is Your Husband An Emotional Terrorist?
/in Conflict Management/byBy Team BLAM First let us explain what we mean by emotional terrorism. When you have a relationship, at home or at work, with a person who is constantly humiliating you, harassing you, pressuring on you, taking pleasure in your pain, saying negative things about you or making you feel worthless, then you are caught […]
Keep Climbing Your Mountain No Matter How Hard It Gets
/in Conflict Management, Inspiration/byAt one point or another we all experience some type of bull shit in our relationship. You know…times when you want to throw up your hands and say “what the hell is going on?” You could be butting heads over where you live, how many children, how you’re being talked to, sexual inadequacies, drug addiction, […]
So, You’ve Been Betrayed…Seven Steps To Survive It
/in Conflict Management, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Outside Interference/byBy Dr. Eileen Borris You’ve met the person who makes you feel so special. It feels wonderful to be in love and now you are married hoping that this relationship will last your life time. Years have gone by and marriage has been good to you – so you thought. You begin to notice some […]
Do You Have Trouble Keeping Your Mouth Shut?
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Mark Webb Do You Have Trouble Keeping Your Mouth Shut? Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret. If you answered yes to the title question I am sure you have realized the truth in this quote by Ambrose Bierce. In order to gain control over […]
Marriage Wisdom: The BEST Reaction To An Angry Spouse? Acknowledge Their Feelings BEFORE Expressing Your Point Of View
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Marc Sadoff The need to defend oneself is a powerful reflex. So powerful that it makes people say things that only gets them into more trouble. Showing that you see how you may be responsible for causing your partner’s hurt or anger and that you care about it enough to do something goes against […]
Working Through Stress As A Couple
/in Conflict Management/byBy Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S. “Stress impacts our love relationships more than we are aware of or acknowledge,” according to Judy Ford, a licensed clinical social worker and author of Every Day Love: The Delicate Art of Caring for Each Other. Part of the problem is that stress is entrenched in our everyday. “Stress has become such a […]
I Ain’t Feelin’ My Husband BECAUSE He Has NO HUSTLE!!!!
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Becoming One, Conflict Management/byVIDEO: I met my husband online. I was living in the UK at the time and he was in the USA, where he was born and raised. He wanted to be the one to pay for mine and my daughter’s plane tickets, while I sold my furniture and books, so that I could sort out the other […]
Your Method Is Messing Up Your Marriage. When Telling The Truth Doesn’t Work.
/in Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Anna Kleimer Because we see truth through the filter of our beliefs, each of us sees the truth differently and those differences can lead to misunderstandings or worse, lead us to live unfulfilled lives. There are three crucial questions to ask before speaking the truth. These questions will make your life and the lives […]
I Think My Relationship Can Survive A Fist Fight
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Conflict Management/byVIDEO: At some point in our relationship we are all confronted with challenges and some situations are more serious than others. In this video we touch on a really serious topic based on a question that came in where a girlfriend cut her boyfriend because he put his hands on her. She feels like everyone […]