I Think My Relationship Can Survive A Fist Fight
VIDEO: At some point in our relationship we are all confronted with challenges and some situations are more serious than others. In this video we touch on a really serious topic based on a question that came in where a girlfriend cut her boyfriend because he put his hands on her. She feels like everyone around her is trying to keep her and her boyfriend apart rather than help them. She asks Why don’t our families try to help us instead of saying things like “Women die every day from Domestic Violence blah, blah, blah”. (Those are her words, not ours) Listen in as we give her honest feedback and leave a comment with your perspective and advice for this young lady.
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This is a BIG problem in our communities! Many of us grew up in families that modeled domestic violence for us. It's become normalized in some families, as just "something that happens".
This is not the way people who love eachother should behave towards one another. It's the epitome of misplaced anger and rage and lack of self control. It's criminal. People are jailed and imprisoned for it every day. Children learn this sick habit, and model it in their relationships. It's a generational curse, and no solution to any problem a couple will have. Brother's who hit women are not grown men. Ladies who tolerate it, are not grown women. They're girls trying to play "grown-up".
Stop this foolishness before someone get's hurt, and/or you wreck your child's sense of safety and security! If you two can't have an arguement without a fight, you don't have the maturity to be in a relationship!
keep giving that advice yall….so very true
In my opinion there is never a reason for a man to put his hands on a women …never. There's never room in relationships for physical violence if you and your partner cannot disagree without touching each other…great video
My cousin dated a guy who hit her. They fought. One night she picked up a knife and stabbed him. She says it was in self defense. The judge didn't agree and she did 10 years. TEN YEARS!!! And he was out beatin' somebody else a$$ while she lost 10 years of her life. I'm sure she didn't think it was going to go that way. I'm sure she thought each of those previious fights was going to be the last time. "In ten years he might not be the same man" but who are you going to be tomorrow? What is your child going to experience in the mean while?
I agree wholeheartedly with your response, Ma'ats. I love that you guys responded with the truth, in a real way, but also with care and concern. I sincerely hope that this young lady really listens and takes in the jewels that you've given her.