By Denis Francis Arguments are a complete waste of emotional and physical energy. They make us emotional and physically ill. Many people die from heart attacks and strokes while arguing. People can lose control and physically hurt or kill another person when arguing. The common physical response to stressful situations such as arguing is increased heart rate, […]
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By Dwayne L. Buckingham From personal and professional experiences, I have come to understand that relationships are only as successful as the players who establish and participate in them. I have also come to understand that the lack of understanding of the differences between offensive players and defensive players in relationships can cause and/or contribute […]
By Danielle B. Grossman, MFT Respectfully receiving critical feedback is a key skill for a happy and healthy relationship. The ability to temporarily put aside our own feelings and our own way of seeing the situation, and truly listen to our partner’s feelings and perspective, allows us to safely air grievances and work through conflicts. […]
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By Lorna Blake Addressing conflict can be challenging for many of us. Many times we either ‘fight’ or ‘fly’ depending on how we were raised and how we saw our families of origin deal with issues. ‘Fighting’ and ‘flying’ both lead to alienation and these are aggressive and passive responses respectively. When we are passive […]
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It is time to lift the veil and admit that being married is only tough for those who are uneducated about marriage. Education is the great equalizer no matter what. Here are five simple ways to resolve marriage issues that you can start using right now. 1) Stop being angry with your spouse and stop […]
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VIDEO: When our lives are surrounded by drama…that infectious spirit can occasionally seep into our relationships causing us to nit pick and gripe about every little thing. While it’s Ok to voice your complaints or concerns in your relationship, it’s also Ok to cut your partner some slack. Your partner won’t get it right or […]
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By Stan Dubin I was reading a book called “New Slant on Life” by L. Ron Hubbard the other day and picked up two new jewels I want to share with you: “There are two rules for happy living: “1. Be able to experience anything.” “2. Cause only those things which others are […]
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By Steve East No marriage is perfect. That is a given. Yours might be “on the rocks,” It might seem hopeless at the moment, but there is one method that really “works” to save the whole situation. I will propose a special plan that will include one crucial bit of advice. First, are you experiencing […]
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By Team BLAM Do you have a problem with putting first things first? Do you have the tendency to get your priorities all screwed up and focus on the wrong things at the wrong time? Who besides you is impacted in that process? Who gets hurt in that process? What gets neglected in that process? […]
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By Your Tango.com So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you? Here’s an interesting question: how do you get a man who won’t even ask for directions after driving in circles for two hours to go out and hire a stranger, then tell that person his deepest, […]
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Arguing Can Steal Your Love And Your Life
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Denis Francis Arguments are a complete waste of emotional and physical energy. They make us emotional and physically ill. Many people die from heart attacks and strokes while arguing. People can lose control and physically hurt or kill another person when arguing. The common physical response to stressful situations such as arguing is increased heart rate, […]
The Difference Between Offensive & Defensive Players In Relationships
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Dwayne L. Buckingham From personal and professional experiences, I have come to understand that relationships are only as successful as the players who establish and participate in them. I have also come to understand that the lack of understanding of the differences between offensive players and defensive players in relationships can cause and/or contribute […]
13 Defense Tactics That Are Destroying Your Relationship
/in Conflict Management/byBy Danielle B. Grossman, MFT Respectfully receiving critical feedback is a key skill for a happy and healthy relationship. The ability to temporarily put aside our own feelings and our own way of seeing the situation, and truly listen to our partner’s feelings and perspective, allows us to safely air grievances and work through conflicts. […]
How Do You Work Through Conflict?
/in Conflict Management/byBy Lorna Blake Addressing conflict can be challenging for many of us. Many times we either ‘fight’ or ‘fly’ depending on how we were raised and how we saw our families of origin deal with issues. ‘Fighting’ and ‘flying’ both lead to alienation and these are aggressive and passive responses respectively. When we are passive […]
5 Things You Can Do To Resolve Issues In Your Marriage NOW
/in Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byIt is time to lift the veil and admit that being married is only tough for those who are uneducated about marriage. Education is the great equalizer no matter what. Here are five simple ways to resolve marriage issues that you can start using right now. 1) Stop being angry with your spouse and stop […]
Cut ‘Em Some Slack….Show A Little Grace And Gratitude
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byVIDEO: When our lives are surrounded by drama…that infectious spirit can occasionally seep into our relationships causing us to nit pick and gripe about every little thing. While it’s Ok to voice your complaints or concerns in your relationship, it’s also Ok to cut your partner some slack. Your partner won’t get it right or […]
The Golden Rule Of Marriage: Cause Only Those Things Which Your Spouse Is Able To Experience Easily.
/in Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Stan Dubin I was reading a book called “New Slant on Life” by L. Ron Hubbard the other day and picked up two new jewels I want to share with you: “There are two rules for happy living: “1. Be able to experience anything.” “2. Cause only those things which others are […]
Playing The Silence Game For A While Now? Here’s How To Stop Today.
/in Conflict Management/byBy Steve East No marriage is perfect. That is a given. Yours might be “on the rocks,” It might seem hopeless at the moment, but there is one method that really “works” to save the whole situation. I will propose a special plan that will include one crucial bit of advice. First, are you experiencing […]
Are You Always Turned On And Need To Know When To Turn It Off?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Team BLAM Do you have a problem with putting first things first? Do you have the tendency to get your priorities all screwed up and focus on the wrong things at the wrong time? Who besides you is impacted in that process? Who gets hurt in that process? What gets neglected in that process? […]
How To Persuade Your Man To Give Couples Coaching/Counseling A Real Try
/in Black Men, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage, Singles & Dating/byBy Your Tango.com So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you? Here’s an interesting question: how do you get a man who won’t even ask for directions after driving in circles for two hours to go out and hire a stranger, then tell that person his deepest, […]