By Ayize Ma’at What’s up Fam…A couple of days ago Aiyana and I had a conversation, which evolved into a discussion, which transformed into a disagreement, which morphed into an argument, which ultimately resulted in a lecture where I was told I was in the “dog house” and on my wife’s $h!t list. Now I’ve […]
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By Chris Andrews Getting your needs met in your relationship isn’t always easy. But if you want to have a long and happy relationship, you will need to learn how. Here are some tips to guide you along with getting your relationship needs met. Never assume that your mate can read your mind. A friend of mine […]
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The youngest daughter of mega pastor Bishop T.D. Jakes has released a statement announcing that she is ending her four year marriage. After just four years, Sarah Henson is divorcing her former NFL player husband, Robert Henson. In her statement, Henson writes: I have built my ministry and identity around being the best wife and […]
By Barton Goldsmith Ph.D. Every couple argues. Some of them do it overtly by yelling at each other while others do it covertly by avoiding contact and conversation. Whatever the method, the result is the same – hurt feelings and disenchantment. Here are my tips to help you argue constructively. If done correctly arguing can […]
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By Team BLAM For some reason some people have fallen victim to the idea that if you’re truly happy and fulfilled in your marriage—you won’t fight. Where on earth folks get this crazy idea from….I’ll never know. Perhaps, it’s what we see on TV and in the movies where couples ride off into the sunset […]
VIDEO: Trust is an essential part of a relationship. In order to establish and maintain a healthy relationship you’ve got to know when to responsibly lower and lift your guards. Occasionally, because trust has been broken in our relationships we recondition ourselves to look for and expect deceit to be forever present. It’s in those […]
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By Dr. Ellyn Bader These guidelines will help you avoid the three most common negotiating mistakes couples make: 1) Failure to prepare before the negotiation with your partner; 2) Caving in too quickly to avoid tension or to keep the peace; and 3) Stubbornly pushing too hard for your own solution. Why Learn to […]
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Have you ever found yourself in a space of dissatisfaction in your relationship and thought about resorting to ultimatums to get your needs met? How did that work out? Recently, Aiyana Ma’at was invited to speak on this exact topic on the Michael Baisden Show where she spoke about ultimatums being fear based and problematic […]
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By Ian Williamson No matter how happy a married couple looks like, their marriage is not without occasional conflicts. Having conflicts in marriage life is normal. It isbrought about by the natural differences of the couple. However, if the gravity and frequency of conflicts inside a marriage keeps on elevating to new heights, the risk […]
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By Aiyana Ma’at I have a question for you. How do you respond to your husband or wife when they try to talk to you about “touchy” or “difficult” subjects? Really, just pause for a second and be honest with yourself. Do you provide a safe or hostile environment for your spouse to come and […]
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I’d Rather Be Sleeping With My Wife Than Sleeping In The Dog House: 4 Steps To Get Out
/in Conflict Management/byBy Ayize Ma’at What’s up Fam…A couple of days ago Aiyana and I had a conversation, which evolved into a discussion, which transformed into a disagreement, which morphed into an argument, which ultimately resulted in a lecture where I was told I was in the “dog house” and on my wife’s $h!t list. Now I’ve […]
You CAN Have A Fulfilling Relationship. Four Fantastic Ways To Get Your Needs Met.
/in Becoming One, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Chris Andrews Getting your needs met in your relationship isn’t always easy. But if you want to have a long and happy relationship, you will need to learn how. Here are some tips to guide you along with getting your relationship needs met. Never assume that your mate can read your mind. A friend of mine […]
Bishop T.D. Jakes Youngest Daughter Chooses Divorce
/in Celebrity Couples, Conflict Management/byThe youngest daughter of mega pastor Bishop T.D. Jakes has released a statement announcing that she is ending her four year marriage. After just four years, Sarah Henson is divorcing her former NFL player husband, Robert Henson. In her statement, Henson writes: I have built my ministry and identity around being the best wife and […]
Anger Is O.K…BUT..Nasty, Abusive, And Ugly Arguments Are Not!
/in Conflict Management/byBy Barton Goldsmith Ph.D. Every couple argues. Some of them do it overtly by yelling at each other while others do it covertly by avoiding contact and conversation. Whatever the method, the result is the same – hurt feelings and disenchantment. Here are my tips to help you argue constructively. If done correctly arguing can […]
Happy Couples Don’t Fight?
/in Conflict Management/byBy Team BLAM For some reason some people have fallen victim to the idea that if you’re truly happy and fulfilled in your marriage—you won’t fight. Where on earth folks get this crazy idea from….I’ll never know. Perhaps, it’s what we see on TV and in the movies where couples ride off into the sunset […]
Are Pics Of Past Girlfriends A Problem?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Becoming One, Conflict Management/byVIDEO: Trust is an essential part of a relationship. In order to establish and maintain a healthy relationship you’ve got to know when to responsibly lower and lift your guards. Occasionally, because trust has been broken in our relationships we recondition ourselves to look for and expect deceit to be forever present. It’s in those […]
3 Common Negotiating Mistakes Couples Make
/in Conflict Management/byBy Dr. Ellyn Bader These guidelines will help you avoid the three most common negotiating mistakes couples make: 1) Failure to prepare before the negotiation with your partner; 2) Caving in too quickly to avoid tension or to keep the peace; and 3) Stubbornly pushing too hard for your own solution. Why Learn to […]
Relationship Expert Aiyana Ma’at Talks About Giving Ultimatums On The Michael Baisden Show
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byHave you ever found yourself in a space of dissatisfaction in your relationship and thought about resorting to ultimatums to get your needs met? How did that work out? Recently, Aiyana Ma’at was invited to speak on this exact topic on the Michael Baisden Show where she spoke about ultimatums being fear based and problematic […]
How To Manage Conflict In Your Marriage
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Ian Williamson No matter how happy a married couple looks like, their marriage is not without occasional conflicts. Having conflicts in marriage life is normal. It isbrought about by the natural differences of the couple. However, if the gravity and frequency of conflicts inside a marriage keeps on elevating to new heights, the risk […]
4 Ways Your Reaction Is Ruining Your Relationship
/in Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Aiyana Ma’at I have a question for you. How do you respond to your husband or wife when they try to talk to you about “touchy” or “difficult” subjects? Really, just pause for a second and be honest with yourself. Do you provide a safe or hostile environment for your spouse to come and […]