By Tara When the reality of marriage doesn’t meet our expectations, we tend to blame reality. When it comes to marriage, we expect the fairy tale. Raised on Cinderella and Ozzie and Harriet, we’re convinced that marriage will solve all of our problems, our partner will meet all of our needs, and that we’ll live […]
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Are you Ms. Independent? Are you Mrs. Independent? If you’re asking yourself these questions than there’s a good chance the answer is YES!! Let us know what you think. Viewer Question:Am I too independent? I just had a conversation with my husband. It started like this, I bought him a suit for Christmas, but did not have the […]
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By Nancy Colier, LCSW Nature abhors a vacuum, or so they say. Similarly, it seems that human beings abhor contradiction, particularly in the context of relationships. We like to package our feelings as positive or negative, believing that contradictory feelings cannot and should not co-exist. In approaching relationships, we use the word but to connect contradictory […]
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Hello…I know that you receive a million emails but I’m in a really bad situation or should I say position. Here my life…I have been with my kids father for 8 or 9 years off and on…in which the last three of them we’ve been married but mostly separated. In 2010 we got married in […]
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What’s up Fam, Today is a special day for us…it’s our anniversary. Yup, 11 years married and lovin’ every minute of it. When you get a second check out this video where we share some details of our anniversary weekend. Here’s a couple of hints: boat ride, fireworks, holding hands, alcohol, jonin’, exercise, no children, […]
VIDEO: My question is… If you know in your heart of hearts that you are not “in love” with your spouse but rather have more of a “brotherly / care taker ” type of love for them, and that you initially got married young and for ALL the wrong reasons. Is there possibily a […]
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By Maria Bogdanos Emotional abuse is elusive. Unlike physical abuse, the people doing it and receiving it may not even know it’s happening. It can be more harmful than physical abuse because it can undermine what we think about ourselves. It can cripple all we are meant to be as we allow something untrue to […]
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By Team BLAM We’ve said on many occasions that relationships require hard work. Sometimes, (i.e., a lot of times!) we seem to forget that as human beings and want everything to go our way. We don’t understand why we have to endure so much friction. Our question to you is: Why not? Anything worth having […]
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By Virgil J. Sandberg There are a lot of reasons as to why women leave men. While you may have argued and had fights over different things, you really need to get to the root cause of the problems. There have been many studies and polls about this issue, and a common response has been […]
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The Perfect Marriage Does Not Exist
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Tara When the reality of marriage doesn’t meet our expectations, we tend to blame reality. When it comes to marriage, we expect the fairy tale. Raised on Cinderella and Ozzie and Harriet, we’re convinced that marriage will solve all of our problems, our partner will meet all of our needs, and that we’ll live […]
My Man Is A Mama’s Boy…And I’m Tired Of It!
/in Love & Marriage/byAre you Ms. Independent? Are you Mrs. Independent? If you’re asking yourself these questions than there’s a good chance the answer is YES!! Let us know what you think. Viewer Question:Am I too independent? I just had a conversation with my husband. It started like this, I bought him a suit for Christmas, but did not have the […]
How To Co-Exist With Relationship Contradictions
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Nancy Colier, LCSW Nature abhors a vacuum, or so they say. Similarly, it seems that human beings abhor contradiction, particularly in the context of relationships. We like to package our feelings as positive or negative, believing that contradictory feelings cannot and should not co-exist. In approaching relationships, we use the word but to connect contradictory […]
Me, My Ex-Husband, Or My Friend?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byHello…I know that you receive a million emails but I’m in a really bad situation or should I say position. Here my life…I have been with my kids father for 8 or 9 years off and on…in which the last three of them we’ve been married but mostly separated. In 2010 we got married in […]
It’s Our Anniversary!!!
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Love & Marriage/byWhat’s up Fam, Today is a special day for us…it’s our anniversary. Yup, 11 years married and lovin’ every minute of it. When you get a second check out this video where we share some details of our anniversary weekend. Here’s a couple of hints: boat ride, fireworks, holding hands, alcohol, jonin’, exercise, no children, […]
I’m Not In Love With My Husband….Should I Leave?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Love & Marriage/byVIDEO: My question is… If you know in your heart of hearts that you are not “in love” with your spouse but rather have more of a “brotherly / care taker ” type of love for them, and that you initially got married young and for ALL the wrong reasons. Is there possibily a […]
5 Signs Of Emotional Abuse
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Maria Bogdanos Emotional abuse is elusive. Unlike physical abuse, the people doing it and receiving it may not even know it’s happening. It can be more harmful than physical abuse because it can undermine what we think about ourselves. It can cripple all we are meant to be as we allow something untrue to […]
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/in Love & Marriage/by***NOTE THIS SALE EXPIRES MONDAY 5/20 at 9AM EST *** If you need answers about your relationship or know someone who needs answers about their relationship… GET THE RELATIONSHIP ASSESSMENT BELOW! We feel that the fastest and most efficient way to fix a broken relationship is to first get a clear understanding of why it’s […]
8 Need To Know Lessons About Love
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Team BLAM We’ve said on many occasions that relationships require hard work. Sometimes, (i.e., a lot of times!) we seem to forget that as human beings and want everything to go our way. We don’t understand why we have to endure so much friction. Our question to you is: Why not? Anything worth having […]
One Of The Biggest Reasons Women Leave Men–It’s Not What You Think
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Virgil J. Sandberg There are a lot of reasons as to why women leave men. While you may have argued and had fights over different things, you really need to get to the root cause of the problems. There have been many studies and polls about this issue, and a common response has been […]