VIDEO: Can I Be With The One I Was Cheating With?

ASK THE MA’AT’S VIEWER LETTER: I have a complex situation. It started of august of 2011 when I started dealing with this guy. I was already in a failing relationship and he was in a relationship too. Through it all I felt I met my soul mate and fell in love and if ask him he says the same, however it took him well over a year to leave his other relationship. So for that full time I was his mistress, I grew tired weary, there was and is a lot of craziness dealing with the situation. The thing is now I am pregnant and I became pregnant before he left his previous relationship. Once I kept getting sick from stressing too much over the drama, I decided to leave. I told him that in 7 months I would contact him to decide how we would proceed about raising the child but as for the drama I was completely tired of it and I couldn’t loose a baby because of stress ( I had already had two miscarriages by him). About two days later he ended his previous relationship and within a week jumped into one with me. Now being that I have been waiting over a year and a half to be in a relationship with him I couldn’t help but be overly excited. I really love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but he has been talking about marriage and moving into a house together already and to me it makes me throw up my guard because, I feel if he really wanted to have all of that with me why did it take over a year to end the previous relationship when he claims it was love from the moment he laid eyes on me. I guess my question is: should I be skeptical of the vast progression or take it as is because its all I have wanted for the past year.