By Team BLAM
VIEWER LETTER: I’ve been married for 11 yrs this week to a special person who has been there for me in the past. Recently, my wife had admitted to having cheated on me. We went to counseling after I presented divorce papers and forgave her to try to save our marriage. I listened to the things that she said I needed to correct and I did change into a better man. Things were going great. There was more intimacy, romance and attention. I lose 55lbs, got lasix, got new stylish wardrobe and cleaned up nice. I had started to really trust her and felt secure again. New years eve was so special, getting dressed up and partying on a midnight cruise. After the cruise, we stayed in a suite laid out with candle and roses. Our world could not have been any more blissful. Then the next day I get a call telling me that another man (suppose to be her best friend) had introduced my wife as his girlfriend. So I ask my wife when can I meet her best friend, lets go out for wings and drinks on me. I would like to know why would he do this to his friend. I felt comfortable before but now I think there may be something more to their relationship. It has been 4 days and my wife still haven’t been able to reach him to clear her name. I haven’t accused my wife of anything but finds it hard to believe that his phone is off and nobody knows where he is. My intuition is telling me to dig deeper to get the truth. When my wife felt I was spending time with a female friend, I took her to meet over wings and drinks to show that she was into our successful reconciliation. But her friend can’t do the same. I need to know what should I do?
BLAM Fam: These are real questions from real people. Please weigh in and provide this husband with your take on this. #EachOneTeachOne
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