Help Your Man Get Back In The Game Of Life & Hold That Man Accountable!
2 VIDEOS: Do you see the possibilities of who or what your man could be but you feel like he is not maximizing his potential? Are you disappointed with his contribution to the family and to the world? Do you feel like your attempts to inspire him fall on deaf ears? Here, Ayize Ma’at shares some critical yet simple ways to motivate him to Get Back In The Game and help him be the best that he can be.
Are you aware of what role you may play in enabling some of his behavior by not being 100% honest? Do you find yourself avoiding the issue or rationalizing (i.e., making excuses) for his lack of insight & discipline? Without your holding him accountable you run the great risk of encouraging and perpetuating the exact circumstances that you want to be rid of. Here, Aiyana Ma’at emphasizes why it’s so important to Hold That Man Accountable!
After listening to both perspectives on "Hold that man accountable" I would have to say that as a black male Ayize's perspective is on point. As a grown man I fully understand accountability. I do not need someone else to explain that to me. I believe that taking that angle (Aiyana's angle) creates divisiveness. Let it be clear if you have been married to this man for several years you know who he is, was, and can be if you lend support. When I hear words like accountability that tells (even if that is not what you are trying to say) me that you do not appreciate what I do or have done and you are approaching the point where you are fed up. If I feel that I retreat and say "Let's just cut this off at the head and you can give me your consequence now and lets be done with it".
Great points! Let's change the way we hold our loved one accountable and see better results.
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O my goodness! you guys are soo helpful. My husband has been unemployed for a while and he has gone in to a slump of depression. Everything you have said is eye opening for me, because our communication has gone down hill since. He's not the most expressive and he hasnt communicated clearly what is really going on. But he has expressed that my approach has been completely wrong. i swear I've tryed every approach could and have almost given up! Thanks again. God Bless!
O my goodness! you guys are soo helpful. My husband has been unemployed for a while and he has gone in to a slump of depression. Everything you have said is eye opening for me, because our communication has gone down hill since. He's not the most expressive and he hasnt communicated clearly what is really going on. But he has expressed that my approach has been completely wrong. i swear I've tryed every approach could and have almost given up! Thanks again. God Bless!
You spoke that truth at the end.. Love your videos!
"I am hear for you but when I done rubbing your back I need you to get up and go to work"
Keep walking boldly: )
OH my goodness! The way that you both bring your perspectives to the table is mind blowing!!!!! This was EXCELLENT! Keep doing what you do!!!! I'm a Blam fan for life! Stop playing! Start Pushing!!!!