The Way I Look At My Wife
By: Ayize Ma’at
You can call “it” soft, weak, whipped, or naive …BUT …there’s one thing you must call “it” and that’s REAL. The “it” I’m referring to is the way I look at my wife. What’s funny is that I had no intention whatsoever on doing a post like this, but a recent comment on our site combined with dozens of other comments on youtube and in person, all of which expressed fascination, intrigue, gratitude and awe when referring to how I look at Aiyana… kinda prompted me to write this post. To be truthful, until yall pointed it out to me I was unaware that there is a “certain way” I look at my wife. For “hippin” me to that, I say thank you….because I believe…. what you’re seeing in my “look” is the passion, promise, possibility and unrelenting potent love that I feel for my wife, Aiyana Kai Ma’at.
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how sweet, however it doesn't come across in the pic above but i believe you. you look like you are waiting for your turn to drop some knowledge. your written words don't seem genuine either. but again, i believe you cause you say it.
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Im recently new to your site. I seen you two on Youtube and watched you guys for hours. Wish I have known of this site before my marriage went south. Keep looking at your wife the way you do. It represents love in a different form. Keep up the great work in your marriage. And thank you for helping me find myself!
Appreciate your support. Definitely will continue looking at my wife the way I do.
I truly understand this. Six years ago as of August 2011 the love of my life was murdered, when he made a decision to pull his work truck over to break up a domestic squabble between a young couple 17yrs of age, and the young woman was pregnant. He lost his life that day, and a part of me left with him… One of the greatest gift memories he left with me was the way he use look at me. He really got me, he understood me because I am a little special. Lol ( in a good way though) He didn't have to say he loved me, (although he did) The way he looked at me said he did, I felt so incredibly beautiful, like a Goddess. Its a great thing to be loved that way & to love the same way. So nice to see, you two are a beautiful couple…Good memories I look forward to that kind of love again~
When I read your comment it made me stand still and say….wow!!! I'm truly sorry for your loss. I'm glad you were able to be in a relationship with someone who "really got you".
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Thank you Ayize, it was truly one of the hardest journeys of my life, but today my smile is genuine, the sun shines and I can actually see it. My soul was resurrected 4real; it took a minute. I recognize the love you two share, & it makes me smile. I so appreciate you and your lovely wife for all that you give and share on a daily, …Peace~N~Blessings~
I truly understand this. Six years ago as of August 2011 the love of my life was murdered, when he made a decision to pull his work truck over to break up a domestic squabble between a young couple 17yrs of age, and the young woman was pregnant. He lost his life that day, and a part of me left with him… One of the greatest gift memories he left with me was the way he use look at me. He really got me, he understood me because I am a little special. Lol ( in a good way though) He didn't have to say he loved me, (although he did) They way he looked at me said he did, I felt so incredibly beautiful, like a Goddess. It is so wonderful to be loved that way & to love the same way. So nice to see, you two are a beautiful couple…Good memories I look forward to that kind of love again~
Ok, so I know I am not the first to admit this, but I love, love LOVE, the way you look at your wife. I wish my husband would look at me with the same affectionate, adoring, fire in his eyes. I even love the way your wife looks at you, and in many instances I wish that I could look at my husband in the same affectionate, in-love, adoring fashion. Maybe one day. Anyway for those who consider the looks "gay" , "whipped", etc., etc., needs a lesson in real, true unadulterated, unconditional love….something that I wish I could apply to my own marriage.
Baby….what can I say? I've always been intrigued and captivated by the way you look at me. You really "see me" and you love me just as I am….flaws and all. Thank you for loving all of me sweetie and thank you soooooo much for never hesitating to let your love show. Love & Respect King.
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I am single and those looks you give your wife let’s me know that real, unadulturated love exists, and it is not a figment of my imagination. It fuels my desire to want to be married, and wait on quality instead of rushing.
From the very first time I saw yall in the movie "You Saved Me" I was impacted by the way you look at your wife. I've been hooked on you guys ever since because the love you have for each other is inspiring.
Whoever's calling the way you look at your Queen "gay, soft, whipped", etc. does not know what it takes to sustain a marriage, family, and community. I say God Bless You, my brother! for causing your wife to know that she is your Queen. It's a great example for the rest of the brothers.
Disrespect for women and girls is rampant in the black community. The way you look at your wife sets a portion of that straight. You hold the bar high, and some of our brothers get intimidated by the standard. I say my brothers because I know no self respecting woman would assign anything negative to the way you look at your wife.
Do what you do, my brother. And don't let the haters stop you from enjoying your Queen everytime your eyes feast on her!