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Singles & Dating

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VIDEO:  Hi, here’s my situation. I met my friend who’s like a mother to me son recently. Ok I really didnt see it as a set up because I was trying to stay out of the” I THINK EVERY MAN I MEET IS MY HUSBAND” area. So we were introduced and it went well. I was nervous [...]

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By Ayize Ma’at Ladies and Gentelmen, You are picking poisonous relationships because you are in pain. I can hear you now…”What you tryin’ to say…  It’s my fault that I’m getting fucked over by my man or woman?”.  No.  I am not saying it’s your fault, however what I am saying is that we get [...]

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VIDEO:  Hi! I need some perspective from a loving married Black couple. I watch your advice videos and love the messages you put out there and the positivity. My question is , I’m newly engaged as of last month and my fiance lost his job the same week. This is the 2nd time since I’ve [...]

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Before you read the below article let me say this….FELLAS….do not use this as an excuse to get your woman something other than a diamond ring.  The below post is information.  If you and your lady choose to take the information and mutually agree to an engagement ring other than a diamond….do you.  If you [...]

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By Lisa Firestone, Ph.D. On Dec. 31, 2009, one day before the baby boomer generation turned 65, a New York Timesarticle reported, “79 million baby boomers, about 26 percent of this country’s population, will be redefining what it means to be older.” Today, in 2013, this statement may be proving to be true. The healthier, harder working [...]

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By Ruth Purple When two people are in a relationship, it is often because of the love and special bond that they share. Whether or not there is an outright affirmation of commitment, the question of whether the partner is the marrying type or not will somehow cross the mind of anyone involved with another [...]

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Is The Man You’re Dating Marriage Material?

March 27, 2013
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By Eng. Yasmin Abouelhassan In general, women tend to rely on words, whereas men rely on actions. So, when men speak sweetly to women, women believe them, even if they don’t behave accordingly. Men, on the other hand, see how women behave, and interpret the behavior to mean what they want to believe, regardless of what [...]

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Are You Ready To Embrace Monogamy?

March 26, 2013
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By Melissa Fritchle Personally, I’m shocked that the TV show The Bachelor and its sister show The Bachelorette are still going strong! The shows’ longevity speaks to how focused we are, as a society, on the dating portion of romance. As a culture, we have turned the search for love into a competition, a game, entertainment … when what we really need are stories and examples [...]

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5 Reasons Why The Man You’re Dating Has Emotionally Backed Off

March 18, 2013
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By Karen Jones Any woman who’s actively dating will at some point deal with a man who is pulling away. If you notice that a previously attentive man is showing signs of fleeing, one of these things is likely going on: 1. He’s just not ready. You may have been communicating effectively that you’re playing for keeps (and if so, great [...]

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Fellas Pay Attention! Women Love Assertive Men–NOT Passive Men, NOT Agressive Men–ASSERTIVE Men

February 5, 2013
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By Vanae I believe there are generally three types of guys: 1) Passive 2) Assertive 3) Aggressive (i.e., a**holes…let’s be real) WE DON’T dig a**holes (no pun intended..or is that really a pun?). We want REAL MEN! Individuals who are assertive, confident, strong (inner and outer), communicative, gentlemanly, exciting, unpredictable and make women feel wanted! [...]

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