By Team BLAM In this behind the scenes interview of Steve Harvey on the Dr. Oz show, Steve talks about how to motivate your man to take care of himself and what his wife does with him. It’s sooo simple ya’ll. We, wives, have more tools than we realize. In fact, his advice can be […]
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By Al- Lateef There were two days that I didn’t smile. Never. Not one grin, not once did I show all 32. I didn’t smirk, I didn’t even laugh. As a matter of fact, I didn’t watch television, listen to music and had no contact with the outside world. I was half past 30 and […]
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By Ilex Bien-Aime When it comes to dating human beings are either blind, deaf, dumb, stupid, or are insane. Something has got to be seriously wrong with us because it seems as if we make the same foolish decisions time and time again. Maybe we are just gluttons for punishment, clearly broken hearts just don’t […]
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By Ilex Bien-Aime I hear men complaining about damaged women all of the time. If you were to listen to most men, you would believe that we are always the correct and sane sex, while women are crazy and always wrong. Too bad life is never really that black and white. Long before the book […]
By Ilex Bien-Aime I always strive to be transparent with my wife but I realized that maybe I am not being transparent with myself. Maybe it’s easier for me to point out all of the negative traits that she brings to the table and inadvertently gloss over my own. Could I be the one who […]
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By E. Payne There is one way in which I feel I am failing my son miserably. In the birds and the bees department I truly suck. The extent of my mother’s sex talk with me was, “BOY, DON’T LET THESE GIRLS GET IN YOUR PANTS!” (Thanks, Mom. That really helped). And my father never […]
By Ayize Ma’at In the marriage counseling and coaching work that my wife and I do with couples from around the country, I’m frequently asked, “How do you know she’s ‘the one’”, or “How do I know when I’m ready to get married?” Sometimes when I hear these questions it’s hard to keep a straight […]
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By Ilex Bien-Aime Karma, Fellas… Do You Reap What You Sow? “Karma” – Hinduism, Buddhism. Action, seen as bringing upon oneself inevitable results, good or bad, either in this life or in a reincarnation. Galatians 6:7 “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.” I am […]
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[yframe url=’http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WggBgIb2QeQ&feature=player_embedded’] By Team BLAM Is Idris Elba sexy? Many of you are probably thinking, “BLAM, that’s a dumb a$$ question!” lol. I guess the ooh’s, aahhh’s, and daaayumms that come from women’s mouth’s (my wife included) when watching him on the big screen is enough of an answer. Side note: I had to throw […]
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By Al-Lateef So what is it about her? Ladies, if you’ve asked a man this question, chances are you’ve already answered it many times over. It’s not something you necessarily had to verbally convey (sometimes), but more times than not, it’s just certain things about you that don’t translate well when a man wants a […]
VIDEO: Steve Harvey Shares The Best Way To Get Your Man To Go To The Doctor.
/in A Man's Point Of View, From Across The Web, Healthy Home/byBy Team BLAM In this behind the scenes interview of Steve Harvey on the Dr. Oz show, Steve talks about how to motivate your man to take care of himself and what his wife does with him. It’s sooo simple ya’ll. We, wives, have more tools than we realize. In fact, his advice can be […]
Can I Tell You About The Time I Almost Lost My Smile?
/in A Man's Point Of View, Black Men, Inspiration/byBy Al- Lateef There were two days that I didn’t smile. Never. Not one grin, not once did I show all 32. I didn’t smirk, I didn’t even laugh. As a matter of fact, I didn’t watch television, listen to music and had no contact with the outside world. I was half past 30 and […]
Stop Acting Deaf, Dumb, Blind, And Stupid….YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT
/in A Man's Point Of View, Love & Marriage, Singles & Dating/byBy Ilex Bien-Aime When it comes to dating human beings are either blind, deaf, dumb, stupid, or are insane. Something has got to be seriously wrong with us because it seems as if we make the same foolish decisions time and time again. Maybe we are just gluttons for punishment, clearly broken hearts just don’t […]
Are We Ruining Our Women?
/in A Man's Point Of View, Becoming One, Black Men, Black Women, Love & Marriage/byBy Ilex Bien-Aime I hear men complaining about damaged women all of the time. If you were to listen to most men, you would believe that we are always the correct and sane sex, while women are crazy and always wrong. Too bad life is never really that black and white. Long before the book […]
I Need To Stop Focussing On My Wife’s Faults And Instead Focus On Overcoming Mine
/in A Man's Point Of View, Becoming One, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Ilex Bien-Aime I always strive to be transparent with my wife but I realized that maybe I am not being transparent with myself. Maybe it’s easier for me to point out all of the negative traits that she brings to the table and inadvertently gloss over my own. Could I be the one who […]
The Worst Sex Talk Ever…
/in A Man's Point Of View, Fatherhood, Parenting/byBy E. Payne There is one way in which I feel I am failing my son miserably. In the birds and the bees department I truly suck. The extent of my mother’s sex talk with me was, “BOY, DON’T LET THESE GIRLS GET IN YOUR PANTS!” (Thanks, Mom. That really helped). And my father never […]
Gentlemen, You Are NOT Ready To Get Married IF…..
/in A Man's Point Of View, Becoming One, Black Men/byBy Ayize Ma’at In the marriage counseling and coaching work that my wife and I do with couples from around the country, I’m frequently asked, “How do you know she’s ‘the one’”, or “How do I know when I’m ready to get married?” Sometimes when I hear these questions it’s hard to keep a straight […]
Do Unto Women As You Would Have Men Do Unto YOUR DAUGHTER
/in A Man's Point Of View/byBy Ilex Bien-Aime Karma, Fellas… Do You Reap What You Sow? “Karma” – Hinduism, Buddhism. Action, seen as bringing upon oneself inevitable results, good or bad, either in this life or in a reincarnation. Galatians 6:7 “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.” I am […]
Is Idris Elba Sexy? He Says Black Men Aren’t Really Described As Such.
/in A Man's Point Of View, Hot Topics/by[yframe url=’http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WggBgIb2QeQ&feature=player_embedded’] By Team BLAM Is Idris Elba sexy? Many of you are probably thinking, “BLAM, that’s a dumb a$$ question!” lol. I guess the ooh’s, aahhh’s, and daaayumms that come from women’s mouth’s (my wife included) when watching him on the big screen is enough of an answer. Side note: I had to throw […]
She’s. Not. You.
/in A Man's Point Of View, Becoming One/byBy Al-Lateef So what is it about her? Ladies, if you’ve asked a man this question, chances are you’ve already answered it many times over. It’s not something you necessarily had to verbally convey (sometimes), but more times than not, it’s just certain things about you that don’t translate well when a man wants a […]