What do you do if you are in a space in your relationship where you’ve developed what we call the silent killer: Resentment. Resentment is anger and bitterness rolled up into one and it is deadly when it’s not addressed. Here, we deal with a wife and mother of 5 who says she has enjoyed being […]
Dean Sunseri, LPC There are 3 levels of agreement. The first level is the lightest and most casual which we will call an agreement. An agreement is a simple commitment between two people, such as making an appointment to go to lunch next Friday at a certain restaurant. The next level of agreement is a […]
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By Neysa Ellery Taylor At nearly every wedding this scripture is read. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not […]
By Aiyana Ma’at Came across this entry in my journal today. It made me smile. Ayize and I have come a long way. We still have issues. I have come a long way. And, I still have issues. But, I’m so proud of us and myself. Smiling right now as I type. A little clue […]
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By Coleta Stewart In today’s world, new communication technologies bring new challenges and opportunities for a spouse to commit emotional adultery or physical adultery if they so desire. But even though it might be easier to be unfaithful, that still does not make it right. Emotional infidelity can hurt just as much as physical infidelity. […]
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By Steve East No marriage is perfect. That is a given. Yours might be “on the rocks,” with an additional burden of discovering that your spouse “cheated” on you! It might seem hopeless at the moment, but there is one method that really “works” to save the whole situation. I will propose a special plan […]
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By Ruth Purple You’re in this for the long haul-MARRIAGE. Some people are afraid of it, some can’t wait for it. Others never even consider it. Marriage is one of the greatest decisions we make in our lifetime. A decision which means we are ready to face and tackle situations bigger than ourselves. Being emotionally, […]
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By William Defoore Have you ever been afraid of really loving someone? Have you been afraid of letting someone really love you? Most of us have known this fear. To love and be loved is what we want more than anything, so why would we be so afraid of having the deep, intimate experience of […]
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2 VIDEOS: Do you see the possibilities of who or what your man could be but you feel like he is not maximizing his potential? Are you disappointed with his contribution to the family and to the world? Do you feel like your attempts to inspire him fall on deaf ears? Here, Ayize Ma’at shares […]
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By Michelle Mayur One of the most powerful gifts we can give ourselves is to forgive, both ourselves and others. In forgiving we are not condoning the behaviour of the person we perceive as having wronged us, but rather we are allowing ourselves to break the hold that person has on our lives. Feeling anger […]
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Resentment–The Silent Relationship Killer
/in Becoming One/byWhat do you do if you are in a space in your relationship where you’ve developed what we call the silent killer: Resentment. Resentment is anger and bitterness rolled up into one and it is deadly when it’s not addressed. Here, we deal with a wife and mother of 5 who says she has enjoyed being […]
Is Modern Day Marriage A Contract Or A Covenant? Too many Of Us Got It Twisted.
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byDean Sunseri, LPC There are 3 levels of agreement. The first level is the lightest and most casual which we will call an agreement. An agreement is a simple commitment between two people, such as making an appointment to go to lunch next Friday at a certain restaurant. The next level of agreement is a […]
Love Never Fails….We Fail.
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byBy Neysa Ellery Taylor At nearly every wedding this scripture is read. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not […]
A Sista With Trust Issues…A Page Out Of The Diary Of Aiyana Ma’at
/in A Woman's Point Of View, Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byBy Aiyana Ma’at Came across this entry in my journal today. It made me smile. Ayize and I have come a long way. We still have issues. I have come a long way. And, I still have issues. But, I’m so proud of us and myself. Smiling right now as I type. A little clue […]
How To Get Beyond Your Spouse’s Emotional Infidelity
/in Becoming One, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs/byBy Coleta Stewart In today’s world, new communication technologies bring new challenges and opportunities for a spouse to commit emotional adultery or physical adultery if they so desire. But even though it might be easier to be unfaithful, that still does not make it right. Emotional infidelity can hurt just as much as physical infidelity. […]
FUN Is The Missing Ingredient In Your Marriage
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byBy Steve East No marriage is perfect. That is a given. Yours might be “on the rocks,” with an additional burden of discovering that your spouse “cheated” on you! It might seem hopeless at the moment, but there is one method that really “works” to save the whole situation. I will propose a special plan […]
The A B C’s Of Marriage. It’s Not Child’s Play
/in Becoming One, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Ruth Purple You’re in this for the long haul-MARRIAGE. Some people are afraid of it, some can’t wait for it. Others never even consider it. Marriage is one of the greatest decisions we make in our lifetime. A decision which means we are ready to face and tackle situations bigger than ourselves. Being emotionally, […]
The Power Of Intimacy: Overcoming Barriers to Deep and Lasting Closeness
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byBy William Defoore Have you ever been afraid of really loving someone? Have you been afraid of letting someone really love you? Most of us have known this fear. To love and be loved is what we want more than anything, so why would we be so afraid of having the deep, intimate experience of […]
Help Your Man Get Back In The Game Of Life & Hold That Man Accountable!
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Becoming One, Communication, Conflict Management/by2 VIDEOS: Do you see the possibilities of who or what your man could be but you feel like he is not maximizing his potential? Are you disappointed with his contribution to the family and to the world? Do you feel like your attempts to inspire him fall on deaf ears? Here, Ayize Ma’at shares […]
Is It Time For You To Forgive?
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byBy Michelle Mayur One of the most powerful gifts we can give ourselves is to forgive, both ourselves and others. In forgiving we are not condoning the behaviour of the person we perceive as having wronged us, but rather we are allowing ourselves to break the hold that person has on our lives. Feeling anger […]